Much to my chagrin, February brings with it my 40th birthday.  Aside from the normal personal celebrations (with friends and family), I was trying to think of a way to "privately" celebrate as well, and thought I'd throw it out to the TER community for suggestions.

I'm willing to indulge a little more financially than I usually do.

Normally, I would set up an extended date with one of my ATF's but both are out of town on extended trips.  

I experimented with my first threesome last year, but it was an awkward experience at best and not what I had hoped for, but I might be willing to try that again if the circumstances were right.

Anyway, any thoughts, ideas, suggestions?

Looking forward to the board's responses!