But Hextyn is correct that this is a P4P site, and seeking free "social time" here from ladies who are used to getting paid for their time, is probably not something that should be done very often. Many women have "social" rates and rightly expect to get paid for their time. I get it that you probably weren't expecting those women to come forward, but....I've gotten free social time from many women, however, it was always an add-on to a paid date where we honestly enjoyed each other's company and they had no paid engagement that conflicted.