I have a question for the experienced.
Providers..   I notice many ladies have a gifts section on your site. I am a total newbie, but the idea of giving thought out gifts to my provider turns me on something fierce. I always leave something extra regardless of however the session went. It's just nice. Question is would you ladies prefer I just gave you the money I spent on the shoes, jewelry,  etc.. As I get more experienced, I find myself really enjoying looking for things to buy for my next provider, and spending some real cash. The more exotic, and erotic the better. So keep in mind the gifts I bring are not crap. In the end, I just want my provider to be excited or at least curious as to what I will bring next. I am currently in a bidding war over a book made in the 1920's because I think a provider I'm planning to see will like it. Will it end up in the garbage ladies?
Hobbiest ...  Ever bring something for a provider they really liked. I mean really liked, not pretended to. I know you will all say cash. Say you have a cash tip for her too. Honestly I don't want to inconvenience my provider with a bunch of stuff they have to carry around. But I can hammer nails with my....finger when I give gifts.

You are bidding on to get your ATF. I would trust my instincts if I were you. Maybe not the answer you are seeking but something as thoughtfull and rare as that book is a homerun in MY book! Trust yourself.

I have regular who knows that red bull drives me crazy. He brings it for me just to see how wild we can get. I don't buy red bull for my self because I know I will bounce off the walls. It is so nice to have it every once in a while.

xoxo Andrea

I do this for every provider I see. It's a big turn on for me. I guess if she threw away whatever I found for her it wouldn't ruin my time because I would never know anyway. I have no illusions with the fantasy I indulge in. So I should keep the gifts exotic, erotic, and rare. Thanks for the advice.

Have you ever had a guy bring you something that made you smile? Go wow in your head? Want one?

Damn.The newbie boards were right. Good point though. I can see how that may be taken as creepy. A token of appreciation for a womans most intimate embrace seems nice, but where does it end?
Chloe is a nice girl even if she is a name thief. I can't say anything bad about any girl I've met. It is easy to get out of control. I have just discovered an endless playground.

Flowers, chocolate ...Puke. I want to impress. That doesn't require alot of money if you look.
You could pm if you want. My access is limited.

Have been very generous with my ATF (flowers, jewelry for Bday and Xmas), and I truly think she appreciates it. I do it because I want her to know how special our time is together! I have no qualms about it, makes her happy and that is all that matters to me!

I collect antique books so that would be a precious gift. I think just get an idea on the lady and what you think would really cheer her up. If you are drawn to buy certain gifts, perhaps choose a lady that you think will have the same interests as yourself. I think that is so very sweet of you and kind hearted.

I do not have a SO. That term disgusts me. You refer to to the people you love that way? Think about that. The difference between you and me is that you have something to hide... I do not.

appriceated especially when they come from any gentlemen.  I dont put a list of desired gifts because I would rather you pick it out! Also, it's always best when it is a complete suprise & it always makes things a lil more personal

Ouch ...somebody smack my ass.

Well put. Sorry to get pissed off there. How far can one take a fantasy before it becomes ..I'll have to figure out these boundaries before I can push them.Thanks for the advice ladies and gent.