Guys what is your personal definition of GFE?  Is it a provider that simply provides DFK and BBBJ or is it something more?  Is it something purely quantifiable or is it more emotional?  I am curious

GFE to me means that you have a true girlfriend, companion experience complete with exchanged emotions and no drama. No real time constraints and when you are finished, you feel like you were with a friend.

There ya go!

I think GFE is a subjective term but in my mind it must involve DFK, BBBJ and DATY.  There must also be an environment created by the ladie that makes you think you are the special person in her life for that one hour.  Just my opinion.

bustin your cajones Frankie.

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"newbie" question.  I am not looking for the traditional definition, rather what GFE means to each person individaually.  I have never really bothered you, so send the sarcasm elsewhere.

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Lawyer hit the definition exactly as I see it.  Its not only the services provided but the manner/attitude/atmosphere that you find yourself in while with the provider.  Does she make you feel very special?  Does she make you believe that it is not just a business transaction?  A true GFE experience leaves you feeling fantastic.  A business transaction leaves you feeling a little lighter in the wallet.

atmosphere and 'feeling' the lady creates during the session. BBBJ, DFK and DATY are essentials of performance, but they have to be combined with the connection between hobbyist and provider.

"I may not be able to define it in writing, but I know it when I see it!"

Just like defining "obscenity".  Great analogy Ex.

To me, GFE is all emotional, has to do with attitude and chemistry.  IMO, people throw that acronym around too often.  While some have certain acts (BBBJ, DATY, etc.) that a GFE session must include, I don't.  GFE stands for Girl Friend Experience.  If a provider acts like my girlfriend during our time together and we "click", it's a GFE.  So kissing is almost a must-do.  Other than that, it doesn't matter what we do, as long as it's not fake.  A GFE can only happen if the girl wants to be there.  I have a very good sense and can usually tell when they are elsewhere in their minds and are only doing it for the payday.

...by the politically correct condom fascists and twisted it's history into the benign definitions it has taken on these days!

to better gain opinions on what the term means to each of us personally, not merely to get the acronyms definiton.

An attack on the politically correct condom fascists - and by the Acting Moderator no less.

Run for cover . . .

no providers have attempted to answer the question. However, that is probably appropriate because most of them don't provide it even though they claim they do. Nowadays, there are an awful lot of agencies and independents who claim to be a GFE because that is what we seek, but in reality DO NOT even come close to it. This is not surprising though since most of these women are so emotionally challenged and unable to trust and let go that they couldn't offer it even if they tried.

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 question Bacca. Individual interpretations are always interesting. I think Lawyer, Kid Brooklyn, and Ex all got it about right. It is indeed, a subjective thing.

 BTW, thanks to G F E and Hyabby for the great belly laughs! I needed that.

Or that she is heading to NYC to meet me in couple of weeks!!! Yippee!!!

There are at least two possibilities...

1. They are not the same person.

2. The moderator is not enforcing the one
identity per thread rule.

Which is it?

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That it is the moderator himself posting as Mr. Info!
ROTFLMFAO!

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I just have seen so much written about GFE seemingly being about simply the acronyms.  It's always interesting seeing different perspectives.

Most of the non-pro women I know aren't into the bare back/cum inside option.....too much fear of pregnancy, much less STDs and AIDS

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Hey franke! Why don't you change your username to Mr. Info? I'll do it for you if you want...

Can't see the forest through the trees?    ;>

GFE is a really defined differently by most of us. I prefer to think of GFE as a provider that really respects herself, is clean (D&D free), and really knows how to make a man feel like a million bucks without you actually spending that much.

If you'd like a like that really defines just about everything sexual, try going to the link below and click on literature pull down and go to sexy glosary. If this site does not sum up just about any question you might have, then I think you need more help than any one of us fellow reviewers or even providers can give.

That's where I am at: DATY, DFK, BBBJ plus
a fun personal expereince.