I am trying to sort through all the providers and see who is interested in spending time with couples.  It doesn't seem very straight forward and outside of calling each individual girl, I am not sure what to do.  I would like to plan an anniversary surprise for my husband and would prefer to set something up rather than leave it to fate and hope to meet some one when we go out - any suggestions

or maybe PM you....or ask them to contact you here.....some will when they see your post...

btw, your husband is a very lucky guy...if you're ever looking for a MMF get together, my rates are very reasonable....

good luck

They don't know if is really an open minded wife or if she is just 'fishing' to see if her husband is cheating.
My suggestion if for you to take your husband to a nice swing club first as 'surprise' gift for him.
You don't need to participate, you can be voyeurs or just him take part of the activities while you watch.
Many providers goes to swingers parties and you might get lucky meeting them.
But, if you want to really hire a professional, be ready for BOTH of you be screened by the lady you choose.
Many ladies would not mind, as long she can screen you and your husband to feel comfortable with the scenario.
Now, if you want to do this once in a while, after the session, review the lady here on the board as a hobbying couple. That will make easier for you to bring a provider to you when you decide to treat your husband again.
Good Luck!

First off, kudos for being an amazing wife Your husband is lucky that you're even trying this hard to put a surprise together for him!

There are plenty of women who cater to couples, though I'm not really sure what to look at in the search function beyond "Really bi" - that might at least cut your search down a little bit. After that, I'd peruse through the website of each girl that catches your eye (time consuming I know!) and see if she makes mention of entertaining couples anywhere.  

I'd also agree that email is probably better than phone for this kind of thing. Random phone calls from strangers aren't my thing in general, and especially not in this lifestyle. Email introductions can usually present more information without feeling like an interrogation, as it might on the phone.

Is actually getting replies. If a brand new hobbyist or an alias makes a post of this nature, they are branded and shouted down.

Suffice it to say, I am not buying the nicey, nicey  wifey wanting to purchase a hooker for her husband story.

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there are actually several female members I"m aware of who are not providers but seem to be wives.  I can't say if the OP is one of them, but it's no unheard of.

May difficult cause she won't have p411, datcheck or other provided references either.she would have to give up some personal info on herself and her husband.

thanks so much for everyone who replied - I sent some emails and surprisingly I got responses that at least helped me narrow down my search - for those of you who think I am some made up wife - lets just say I spent too many years in a slimy business and are VERY aware that men are bound to step out and feel the need to be naughty - so why not supervise the activity and at least I know and dont have to wonder about where he is - may not be for everyone

I dont know if i can go in a swing club without wanting to put a bag over my head - i am not that open YET!

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