For me, role-playing

has been a great opportunity to expand the dialogue on things she may want to experience with me that more often might get forgotten in the heat of the moment.

For example, having spent years researching male/female sexual physiology, I've accumulated a lot of information and tips/techniques/variations to take the encounter to a higher erotic level. Bless'em, most ladies I've had the pleasure of meeting are Givers, wanting to know what I want, when they may have some desires themselves they'd enjoy being focused on.

So I came up with the idea of a fantasy roleplay where I am a professor who they met through a friend, who travels about assisting ladies in their sensual journey. (Obviously this only is done after I've actually met a lady prior, so her comfort level is high and she knows she can open up to me in terms of what she would like to explore sexually.)

In the fantasy, I first act as a resource of information via email. Through that, I come up with a plan for us to assist her in the journey. On the fateful day the Professor arrives and much eroticism ensues.

Using this format, it is very open-ended to ladies' needs. It has given me the opportunity to have extended times where they've wanted to focus on
-awakening their body to squirting
-sensualizing other body parts to increase the intensity of their orgasms
-being a naughty housewife who wants a friend to take erotic pictures of them while they are home alone, then progressing to sex
-exploration of food play
-a couple hours of trying over 40 variations of cunnilingus (those were tasty encounters!)

They say sex is 80% mental, and I try to engage that with this type of roleplay.
Since I am playing the 'role' close to who I am in general, before the encounter is finished she usually gets to a comfort level of just sharing what she'd like directly in future dates.

So, maybe not the typical "School girl" type fantasy, but it seems to work well for the ladies I choose to participate in it with.

And it doesn't really go the way that you envisioned? And if so r u then disenchanted with the provider?