All you can do is worry about your self. There is no use playing the "who is using unsafe practices" game, as one could argue that we all are in one way or another.

As a provider am I to believe that the men I see practice safe sex OUTSIDE of the hobby? I would be a fool. Maybe you shouldn't do BBBJ . Take the proper steps towards protecting yourself, and if you find yourself paranoid, find another hobby.  

As for finding out who provides "BBFS", this will be all hear-say, and once you start putting a sort of scarlet letter on a a lady because of what some douche on a board (who may have other motives) says she did, you are an asshole.  

I believe these reviews like I believe in the tooth fairy.

And get your self checked on a regular basis. There are some hobbyists who hobby on TER and hobby to see street walkers doing bbfs. They also post the videos on the internet to see. I can't post the url it is a competing review site.

I have been asked to provide bbfs more times in the last six months than I have in the last two years. I am not sure what is going on. The first time a client via email asked for a natural session I responded that I had implants. Okay I was having a blonde moment. I have blonde streaks

While I am fine with bbj I agree that the other is not safe and if a client asks I will not see him . I want to be safe too

just one girls opinion

This post seems like your trying to compile a list to go visit bbfs ladies, if not why are you posting this question anonymously.  We are all adults,  and if for one instant if you think people aren't going bare with significant, or clients I have a bridge to sell you.  If your that paranoid I think you need to find a new hobby