Who remembers their first time and has any advice for someone about to have theirs? Providers and hobbiests comments welcome...
If you could have your first time again who would it be with? Any suggestions/volenteers?

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May 2004, with a provider named Sexy Toni from Florida.  I'm still friends with her after all this time (love her, in fact), and see her whenever she travels to NYC and environs...if I had to live it again, I would change nothing.

As for choosing a provider for your first time,  do your homework, and gain as much knowledge as possible before deciding.  But when the time comes to decide, don't be afraid, just go for it.   You'll be glad you did!

Where did the time go... I remember that day like it was yesterday. Thank you, CD for the great years. I, too, would change nothing!

I've read most of the threads in the newbie sections but wondered if there was any specifics not covered or pitfalls that hadn't been mentioned in the general threads.  

My first time with a provider was prior to TER, when all you had was adult magazines with ads. I was in my 20's. She was early 20's. If I had to do it again, I would (assuming TER exists):

-  Find a lady in her 30's who lists interests on her site that I find interesting myself.
-  Make sure she is more on the GFE side, who likes to kiss.  
-  Icing on the cake would be a lady who liked to shower with me before the real "intimate" activities began.

I would also, once you actually meet, let her know this will be your first time. One reason I like seeing ladies in their 30's and beyond is they more often seem to have appreciation for situations like that (even if not your first time, they seem to handle the "I'm a bit nervous" situation better). They also have more interesting perspectives to share since they have lived a bit of life at that point.  

As to having some similar interests, since there will be some down time (refractory), it is always a delight to be able to engage a lady mentally in common interests. Then the time, when you think back upon it, will be more than a series of acronyms (DATY, CG, Mish, RCG, etc.).  

There are a number of ladies I have had the pleasure of meeting on my reviews list that I would have been lucky to have been able to have my first time with.  As it is, we did have our own "first time", and am looking forward to many more "times" in the future

My first time paying for sex was in a strip club in NY--I wasn't planning on it, but she took me to the VIP Room and surprised me by unzipping my pants, unrolling a condom, and riding me reverse cowgirl.....

Since then, I've had some amazing experiences--among the best being with Sexy Toni and Emma Dupree.

Read posts, reviews and comments.  Take your time and experiment.  Good luck.

Thanks for sharing Prof, and some great advice. Research and honesty seem to be key so I'll make sure I use both.  I hope  it turns out as well as yours did, although I'm already a bit longer in the tooth than you were.  

Any first time specialist feel free to get in touch!!!

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They were known for this stuff in the early 2000's.

I remember that sexy little Florida dress that day...

he was adorable!

So true. After I did some research on line, relying on the provider's pictures, information, and reviews only, I recently went for it and called the provider; same day. I later met her at her hotel. It not only turned out to be fantastic, there were things she performed that I had never experienced with past lovers.