nycad

(I was wondering where A-Rod was these past few weeks. NYbaseballgreat was playing poker and hobbying!)

I've seen several well reviewed indies but I haven't reviewed most of them. I am usually the limiting factor in those meetings and my review would probably reflect my performance rather than theirs. The key thing is, they almost always tried to make sure that I had a good 10-10 time, even if I'm only worthy of a 6-7 (and I'm being generous).  

There are times that I just prefer to be with someone who I rate a 10 (appearance) even if, together, we only produce a sub-10 performance. She shouldn't be grading you in those situations so don't worry about grading yourself, either.

Make sure to read the juicy details to get an idea if she's popular for the reasons that will make you less nervous.

But. you need to overcome it, and just send the e-mail or make the call.  If you don't, you'll never know what what might have missed...  

More often than not, you will hear back from the lady, and the ball will get rolling towards an eventual meeting.  But it's up to you take that first step...

Sorry I had to share my thought.... Tootles

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