If people would just use condoms this wouldn't be happening.  Lots of those men probably weren't openly bisexual but rather men who identify as straight but secretly have sex with men on the side.  They of course often don't use condoms because that would require admitting to themselves what they are doing.  Then of course they are not using condoms with their girlfriends because they are pretending to be monogamous while secretly having unprotected sex on the side.

I have always used condoms with everyone, including my long-term boyfriends, and plan to keep it that way.  Not worth risking my health on someone else's honesty.  I can't think of anyone who I would trust with my life in that way.  Gay, straight, bisexual, pansexual, whatever.  But then again when I came of age, I learned to use condoms and sexualized them from a young age.  I think they're hot.  It makes me feel safe.  I guess I'm lucky in that regard, lucky to have learned that young and always played that way.  It has kept me safe despite my promiscuous nature.  

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