Judge not lest ye be judged.

Just asking the question implies a tiny bit a judgmental attitude about the behaviors that you consider unsafe, and also implies that you think what you are doing is safe.  It's not.

We all engage in activities that others consider high risk.  If you don't believe me, try to give blood and honestly answer the question about paying for sex.  See if saying "I always use condoms" will keep them from rejecting you.  

Any of your friends who don't hobby would say the same thing simply about being with escorts.  "'Isn't there a much higher risk of a STD being passed along?"  After all, condom's aren't 100% effective.

It's simply a matter of each of us choosing how much risk we are willing to take for the pleasures that we seek.  

As for how much riskier different behaviors are, well, there are a million and 1 sites that talk about statistics and risks of all sorts of activities.  

... are you out of your mind paying for that or what!

For the most part, We know what we're doing but thanks for your concern...smooches
Or, see providers that've offer CBJ, ever.
See if it's an option when using the TER search for Providers.
Stay fun and be safe!

Here's my 2 cents from my UNPROTECTED B... Brain

BBBJ was a taboo a few years ago. From my knowledge, it was not a common practice, but as more and more providers started offering it, the rest had no choice but doing the same. Even after learning the risks, most fear of changing it to a CBJ because they might lose their clients. Oral sex is not risk free, but we are all free to choose.

Be safe,

Anais