If you're thinking of the one who was active in the 2010-2012 timeframe in Manhattan, she's now completely out of the game, living in California.  She and I became pretty close for a while.  I even met one of her family members.  Her passion in life is legit massage and pilates, so she's got her own business doing that now.

It's been a while since I was in touch with her, but last I checked, she was very happy with her life outside of the hobby.

Sounds like her - she had a sister named Emme . But she active in early 2020🤔

Elle pops up on the roster a few times a year. Keep tabs on the BDJ IG and TikTok for updates. It will be months in between her appearances, but others have said that she lives in NY at last part of the year. Same with Emme but Emme pops up like once a year if we're lucky.

Of course, I could be wrong.  It's been a long time since I spoke with her.