ok so stop using the word dude. And stop trying to make someone look foolish for asking a question.

No, its not high school, its a fuck forum where men and women converse, and many men ask questions here that not only pertain to this hobby but also can pertain to their life with their SO. Many men don't feel comfortable asking their SOs questions and do so here to get a better feel for how women think. Not to mention the fact that many women here don't care for facial hair either as it scratches the hell out of them.  Yes, the ladies here are getting paid, but they also have the right to see who they want to see and sometimes it can come down to something as little as not wanting to get the shit scratched out of them by someone with facial hair and they will not see a man again because of it.

Thanks for the honest and thoughtful answer Lauren. My interest is in having an enjoyable time and that means finding out ahead of time what someone likes or dislikes. I guess some of these guys don't care. Sure one pays but ultimately I think everyone wants the best experience right?