Hello, I had an experience where a highly rated provider was drunk. I arrived at hotel and she was watching tv and had basically knocked back a half bottle of wine. Drunk and admitted she was "shitfaced." We finally got into  bedroom and things progressed and then said "tonight is not the night." There were emotional issues as well. I felt compelled to calm her down, told her that I was taking back some of my donation (she agreed to that) and left. Ever had a similar experience? What did you do. Stunning girl though.

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Agree with you . Was wondering if there was a better way for me to have handled it. I'm inclined to just chalk it up as an "interesting" experience.

I've had one experience where the provider had a really bad day. I was upset when I left but to her credit she reached out and gave me a make up session and did not accept payment. I thought that was considerate so I wrote a great review not mentioning the bad day and will see her again  

It seems you handled it well. Maybe see if it was a bad day and give it another shot

You asked for some of the donation back.  Did you actually see her for what you came for? If not should n't you get all the donation back.  

And not just booze. All kinds of things that we see and hear about in daily life. It's amazing how some of these ladies can pull it off and still be pretty OK. For the most part though, a lady who partakes too much is not likely to be revisited. Even if I've seen her a few times. My experience is to arrive sober, and hope that the session stays that way. More fun all around.

I will say that a few months ago I arrived at a fairly new provider's place with a bottle of wine. She was already 3 glasses into one. And she was not able to hold her liquor at all. The results were not disastrous, but did not go well. She tried to lure me into staying extra time for more money of course. She played the game. Was well reviewed by about 3 reviewers as I recall. I thought it was just simple fraud. And I'm sure she was getting away with it because of the fear of blacklisting. I just told her that if she didn't get herself straightened out, she was going to find the community very tough on her. I'm probably wrong about that. I didn't take any money back and just chalked it up to my bad research and bad risk taking.

I've had plenty of good luck in these hills, so I try not to complain to loudly when the pan doesn't have any gold in it.

Jake

Nope, no services rendered. I essentially watched her get drunker. Probably should have had it all back, but felt bad for her. Also thought there was potential for a "scene" and didn't want to risk it in her hotel room.

maybe she had something really bad in her personal life,

i think she shouldn't accept to meet clients when she had issues, but if she was drunk !!

 i don't think you should post this online and share, she was nice to you give you the donations back, and you was a real gentlemen not to take advantage of her

NO one is perfect.
that's why i don't drink

one time i had client was really drunk and on some party things, he carried me to take me home with him, at least she let you go

I think you handled it well. It was really generous of you to only take back some of the donation and respect that she was too out of it to continue. I don't drink alcohol - it even says so on my site now since men were bringing me bottles - so luckily I never have to worry about doing that to a client but sorry it happened to you.  

I would've taken back the whole donation (for time wasted). And she could've at least let you know what was going on and cancelled. I think the client's time should be respected as much as the providers.

Thanks. I tried to do my best for her. I even asked her if she had anything to eat and if she was going to be okay. I was asked by some on the boards "who was it?" Never going to say, she deserves a second chance.

Thanks Chloe. I was kind of interested in a provider's point of view here. I always try to do the respectful thing and my instincts told me I played it fairly. The chief thing is I think there was  a big emotional thing going on and did sit and talk with her a while, but I'm not a psychologist. I actually felt badly about leaving her alone, but had a can't-miss work engagement scheduled for after our session. So it goes.