So this may be a stupid thread and I may just be told to not care, which I'm giving myself until tomorrow morning to do so.  
I've been very happy for the past few months, knowing that I've had nothing but great experiences because even the ones that were not the best were nowhere near negative. I've truly enjoyed meeting people.  

Can someone please explain why an adult male would consider someone "nice and pleasant and accommodating," was able to cum twice and still writes a hurtful synopsis of the experience?!  

It's unorthodox but I would seriously have 1) not been offended at all by stopping the date or 2) if it was that bad but I'm so open, why not just write to me and say it and ask for a refund? It sounds out there but I'm perplexed that men could be so unaware that when they write these things, it's humans you're writing about. And if they were nothing but nice to you, why should you be insulting to them?

If they will book you ahead of time, chances are much higher that you are "their" type and they are really into your look.  If any greased up knothole in a tree will do as long as it's RIGHT NOW, then you get reviews like this.  

"Fatter than I expected, but I just needed to get off"

There you go.

After reading your review and blog, I am sorry to say I can offer no explanation. Some people are just mean and stupid.

If an a$$hat says you are not good for him, but might be fine for someone else, take it as a compliment.

I happen to like the thick women, but a lot of the spinner likers really seem to be offended by people who carry a little extra weight. Perhaps a few more pictures of yourself on your site would scare the skinny ninny's away.

Keep your head up

I read all the other reviews by this guy - almost every one was obnoxious - he obviously is a low life - don't take it personally - there is nothing you can or could have done - regardless of what happened in the session, he was going to write a review matching all his others - the problem is his, not yours - I know it must hurt but you have to grow a little skin for infantile crap like this - unfortunately it happens from time to time - hold your head up high and put it behind you - he does not deserve any reaction from you.

Hi There

I had this horrible experience happened to me. I allowed him to go twice and gave him positions I don't usually do and still complained. I hate indian clients and especially the agent of Ginas GFES.
So glad I say no to foreign men and agents.

have a great nite

Alley

I have a few mixed reviews with the same undertones (she's nice, great incall, smelled great, etc). Don't let one man's negative feedback kill your spirit. Shake it off and move on.

I feel your pain. Really I feel your pain. I am going thru the same thing.  I logged on to TER after an extended vacation rested happy and ready to set sail on a new adventure then the wind was knocked out of my sails.  There sitting on top of my reviews is a lack luster review. What a way to start out.. There is only one thing we can do... BURY IT WITH GREAT REVIEWS. I am not saying it is easy, I am still working on regaining my confidence and erasing the negative words from head. Remember time heals all wounds the hurtful words come cross my mind a fewer times each day. it is such an emotional roller coaster the feelings of betrayal, I treated you so well and this is how you repay me, to anger I am done with this that is it I quit, to denial it must be another jealous provider to finally accepting the fact there is one person that I was not to his liking.  It is such a tough business there are just so many opportunities and points in the meeting that exceptions and miscommunications can lessen the experience.  We are not the first nor will we be the last to go thru this.  Many ladies have survived a negative comments and we can too. Most gentlemen know that taste can run such a large spectrum when it come to the pleasures food, wine, music and companionship.   My advice reread your good reviews take some time too heal and rebuild your confidence then bury that review, baby.  The best revenge is to let it affect you as little as possible and live well.

I understand how the words and "reviews" affect you ladies! Quite obvious the ass wipe who left this review will probably never get the female aspect of the written word.
Maybe (probably) it's how he felt , but he by no means understands the "pain" he has obviously inflicted upon you . Myself, I get. "It" and fully understand how hurtful these words are to a woman. I have enough class and understanding to know hat it is just better left unsaid. Does it help or benefit the next guy which is after all the purpose in the first place ? Who cares when it affects another humans soul as it has here . I did not read the review, or do I really care too, the point is your mileage may vary and it has the potential to hurt the lady's feelings so I err on the side of caution and let it go. If the guy PMs me than I will be honest in my encounter but to display it out there to hurt the lady is not my style.
Sorry it happened to you ,but as always you can't please everybody.
Lastly...........
I read EVERY word of your blog .......... BLOWN AWAY is all I can say. !
Intelligent, honest, well spoken ......I simply am speechless at what you have written! That is not said often by me !
WOW !!!!   The honest feelings expressed and the way you wrote them is the main reason I responded to this post . Your intellect and honesty combined with your writing style is UNBELIEVABLE!
Thanks for enlightening this gentleman with your intermost thoughts with great depth and honesty! A breath of fresh air with complete honesty that I completely enjoyed like my favorite Stephen King novel.
I think you may have an undiscovered talent !
Many thanks for your blog and the joy it brought me !
I bet if we were to meet it would be nirvana to both of us !

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Now, first off, I want to make it perfectly clear that I am not defending his review, his actions or agreeing with him in any way! That being said, let me play devil's advocate.  

If I know going in that a provider is heavier or not a spinner because she has actual and recent pics of herself, then that's on me and I shouldn't complain about body type. However, if a provider is short on honesty and advertises with pics that are outdated, photoshopped or taken at specific angles to hide such things as a larger stomach, or other not so flattering areas, then I don't have a problem with honestly reviewing that. A common theme amongst the men here are dishonest reviews where a provider is reviewed as stellar or model type and the men get there and it's far from the truth.

I may be wrong here, but I believe this site is there for the hobbyists as well, to review the ladies here and make an informed decision as to who to see. I have fallen victim to false reviews only to discover the lady I decided to see is far from the woman depicted in her photos. I have written that I had a good time but felt it was only fair to mention the weight gain. For this I suffered endless texts, emails and messages here on TER accusing me of trying to destroy her business.

A fair and accurate review is just that, fair and accurate. Now I understand chemistry is YMMV, but thats not what we're talking about here. There are several reviews I have read where a provider advertised one thing only to admit it was only an advertisement ploy to get the hobbyists there.  

Men, be honest in your reviews, understanding that chemistry is everything, women be honest with your pics and services advertised

Just my two cents.

...make you swing from a chandelier, cum three times, then demand a refund by threatening to give you a bad review.  They're just cheapos trying to get over on you.

In which if someone isn't happy with my appearance than they can feel free to not go through with the appointment.  Quite honestly I wouldn't want to service someone who isn't attracted to me anyways.  If you are unhappy with the way she looks then leave, it's as simple as that.  Better to lose out on one appointments worth of money then be slow for a month or two because of a crappy review.  We've all been there and usually the review is written by someone who is obviously not in to our type and there are plenty of reviews, pictures and descriptions to figure out what a provider looks like.  If someone schedules an appointment with me who prefers spinners and I'm listed under "baby fat" then what business does he have writing me a bad review based on the fact that I'm not skinny?  It's like reviewing a Japanese restaurant poorly because your favorite food is Italian.

It is truly harsh that a crappy review can slow down a ladies business for a month or 2
when clearly it was not deserved.

Although, deceptive pics turn me off a bit;

I do not pay too much attention to a bad review or 2 as long
as the majority are good, fair and consistent.

knowledge that each time you, and every other provider he has given an unwarrented lackluster review to does the same, his available offerings will drop lower and lower to the bottom of the pile.  This may take a while for him to get to the point where the only appointment he can set is with pond scrum, but it will if he tends to write negative reviews. On the other hand you will have been working to improve your scores and confidence and will have forgotten this setback.

Remember . . . Buyer Beware . . . No Refunds!

Being a provider is a business first and foremost.  We come in all shapes and sizes because the market and tastes vary as much as we do.  Atmosphere IS important so be sure that you've done everything you can to insure the place you work is welcoming to your guests.  You Americans have a saying, "cleanliness is next to Godliness".  

A unkempt apartment, and especially a dirty bathroom, IS a major turnoff to gentlemen visiting our place of business.  Be sure that you do keep it as clean and neat as you possibly can.  Be sure that there is always a clean fresh folded towel available for your client.  If I kept an incall I would also have cheap disposable toothbrushes, mouthwash and small Dixi cups, and spray on deodorant available for my clients to use.  Keep the trash can in the bathroom empty at ALL times.  There is nothing more disgusting than used condoms and Kotex lying plainly in sight in a trashcan for your client to COUNT while he freshens up.  

( Mmmmm . . .  must have just finished her period and already 3 customers before me today? ).

Not a good thought . . .  is it.  I would expect a poor review if my place of business was not clean.

Always freshen up before just before an appointment.

Since you are new to this profession I tried to write this in a manner that would be supportive, fair to the reviewer, and also helpful if there were shortcomings you could easily control and correct since I haven't seen the gentlemen's reviews to whom you are referring.  He just may be a troll but if your apartment needed cleaning that could have been all his mind needed to start thinking negatively.  

I eat a lot of spicy food that many Americans find offensive so I always brush my teeth before a date.  It is the little things that make great reviews.  And don't feel lonely, I had what I consider a much lower than average review back in 2008, 7/5.  It really slowed down my business until I received my next review, a 9/9.  

I do my best to be able connect with each of my dates but there are some persons you just can't connect with.  I just got my first 10/10 after almost 6 years of reviews.  What do you do after that?  I certainly do not expect that from everyone, not after 6 years with a 8/8 average (but I certainly appreciate the enthusiasm).  I was a 10/10 that day, a 8/8 most days, and on one occasion I apparently wasn't in the game and received a 7/5 which devastated and made me look at myself more closely.  I never imagined that I would feel called to mention my lowest review in the same week I received my highest.  Isn't life something.

There is a place on the net where much more experienced providers coach and share information with each other.  I can't mention the name of this association or share the link on TER because of the posting guidelines.  I found this group very supportive in general, especially helpful in learning how to screen clients professionally, and learning safe business practices.  

Please send me a PM and I will give you the link.  I am certain that this group will be very helpful to you since you are just starting out.  Sorry guys but this is a invitation to ladies only.

Oh, and one more thing.  There is no way around it, YOU are a professional when you accept money.  From reading your blog there is no doubt you have what it takes to be VERY successful.  Don't let one review keep you down.

Looks as though this guy has no class and gets off belittling people.  His review says a lot more about himself than it does about you.   He should have kindly said that he had a different impression of you and left.  One thing I've learned is that a lot of these guys are the types that never get attention (past & present) from women so in a situation where they can select a woman, they use the opportunity to have the upper hand for an ego boost.  When a women seems confident even though she's not his "type" for some odd reason it bothers them and they feel the need to put them in their place via a review.  The guy has issues and I would not let it affect you especially if his review differs from everyone else's.

If she was THAT BAD, how the fk did you cum not only once, but twice? Pathetic. I have a revenge review where the guy says, "She was in a hurry," and in the very next sentence explains how I let him go down on me, told him what I liked, and was able to cum. Now, anyone who has ever made me cum will tell you it aint fkin 5 min. More like 20, so if I was in such a rush dummy, I would have just skipped that part altogether. He says, "There is more bang for the buck out there" which just confirmed he was pissed he had to pay my rate, I would not allow anal, and bbfs like a few of the other women he had seen

Thank you for the sweet words!  
Yes I love writing because it allows me to move emotion from inside to a place where it has been expressed, described and it can exist on its own without necessarily being tied to me.  
You are pretty great too, thanks for taking the time to make another person feel better

Sorry this happened to you. I recently saw someone who was clearly into petite girls based on his reviews and I made it a point to tell him before hand I'm on the curvier side. By no means am I a bbw but I'm curvy and I'm very content with my body.I actually feel sexier now at a size 4/6 then I ever did at a 2. Unfortantly the point of reviews is so men can be honest ,or at least his perspective of honest. If he knew you were not a spinner and your pictures protray you accurately then he was clearly thinking with his little head going forward with the session. Shocker the reality is no one girl is every mans type. One mans 10 is another mans 4. That's just how it is. If you know you did your best to give him the best possible experience you could then I wouldn't sweat it. Life goes on. Just be appreciative of the men who do think your beautiful just as you are.  
Kisses and hugs,
Taylor

because their an insecure asshole

Take a quick look at a potential client's reviews. If he is nasty or has a "theme" that runs through his reviews, you might be better off not seeing him.
My ATF, who has a great score got a low review and the slug even said the pictures weren't her, when in fact they are.
She was upset, and I read his reviews of other gals and he said the same thing about several.
I know this takes time, but it might save you the irritation and possible loss of income.

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You know the truth. And so do I. xxx

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One of the things I do (and many other ladies do too) is to check a potential new client profile here on TER and on other place as well.

Not only read his reviews but also read his posts (if any) and get an idea of how is his preferences in women and find out how he rates them.

Three things stands out on his profile/reviews:
* he's into skinny spinners
* he's picky
* he's a long grader (look at the bunch of 6s & 7s there)
* and, besides his LONG list of reviews, he doesn't have one single White Listing

So, if a lady is not a model like spinner, he will not be happy ----- and he will write a demeaning review of any lady who doesn't fit his standards.

Just move on, not worth to get upset over ---- but, in the future, always do a bit of research on your new clients, to avoid booking guys like him

Skinny ninny - I almost spit out my juice. THANK YOU

They are. I have the undies to prove it darn it
I don't even know what the word fat implies, but I was most offended by the out of shape part. I am a runner but was a soccer player. I have thick legs and hips and an ass, but they are in shape

I looked randomly at some of his reviews and yeah - they seem to have a common and not so nice undertone.  And like I mentioned previously elsewhere, there are descriptions, experiences etc that show up multiple times in your other reviews. This one seems to fall outside of those and loses credibility based on that alone (for me anyway). Based on the pics I've seen too, you seem to have a normal healthy body-type. But I guess if you like 70 lb gals....

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Although the sharp sting of a bad review may hurt in the short term, I would suspect that most guys reading reviews of providers look at more than just one review to determine if they want to meet with a provider.  Think of it as the one thorn among the roses.  I am sure you will see in the long run, you will be recieveing many more good reviews that will drown out the occasional "thorn" that is sure to crop up from time to time.

Keep your chin up

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I read the review after it was posted and after I read it all I could say to myself is what an ass.
I also thought of how you or any provider must feel when reading something like that review.
I normally do not comment on posts but I feel I had to because there is no room to say or write something that is insulting or hurtful.
Sometimes you have to let things roll off your shoulders.  When someone treats you poorly the chances are that they treat many others poorly too.

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First of all, let me echo all the others here - sometimes a review like this tells other reviewers as much about the reviser as the provider. It seemed clear to me and the others posting here how this reviewer was ultimately just indicating that you weren't his type - big deal. You're explicit (and eloquent) on your posts about what you're like, so no one will be misled.

What does seem troublesome to me is that his review has now been pulled. It was my understanding that TER will NOT yank any reviews unless they are considered fake; once you post your review, it becomes the property of TER.  This helps to keep the review system somewhat honest; otherwise we'd have lots of potential shake downs (I'll blacklist you if you don't give me a 10) type scenarios. I don't know why this was pulled, but it troubles me on principle. I have nothing nice to say about the review or reviewer, but think that the review should have been preserved. Obviously there may be more to this than I know (I hope so).