Ladies and gentlemen,
I need to pose a question to one and all
I was recently with a provider that I had never met  
I easily cleared her verification process, provided the required info and deposit
Meeting was initially warm and fuzzy and we smoothly transitioned from chit chat to the main event
We seemed to have a bit of chemistry(well at least in my mind) and I felt comfortable to go from cg to mish
I then wanted to move to k9 but not only was the session abruptly halted but I was lectured about the inappropriateness of my seemingly inane suggestion...what the fuck?!?!?!?!?...well, I was berated about how she doesn't trust men and that condoms were removed without her consent or knowledge in the past...suffice it to say that my erection vanished and I quickly dressed as her ranting continued...she offered me a refund, I told her to keep it and did not let the door hit me in the ass as I scurried out

I know that within the boundaries of a session, my motto has always been that I would rather ask and hear the word  no than not ask and hear the word stop...I believe that she has PTSD from prior experiences but there are better ways of handling her trauma than screaming at me...I would have been happy to hear her limits prior to getting started and in addition, I would never have insisted upon doing something that makes ANYONE feel uncomfortable

Thoughts???

and for those that will ask privately who she is, please don't