Hi, everyone:  

It's been a long time since I had a dinner date with someone, mainly because I got out of seeing escorts during the pandemic.  

I'm thinking of having a dinner date, but I've noticed that I can't handle my alcohol like I used to (haven't been drinking as much, either) which then results in performance issues later. This is especially the case when I go out for tasting menu meals that include wine flights.  

When going out on a dinner date for the first time with a client, would companions be OK with having private time then enjoying a good meal, or would you prefer having a meal to get to know each other first? If going out for an extravagant meal, I really would like to enjoy the full food and drink experience. Even if I were to cut back on the alcohol, I find that after a big meal, I just want to take a nap - a bad pandemic habit I picked up. 😆

Thanks for the advice.  

JWK9

If you don't click in bed then dinner will be awkward. If you don't click personally in the restaurant then sex will be awkward. I've taken lots of girls out for a meal but it was always after we'd fucked and gotten along well. Also I made it clear that dinner was on me but I wasn't paying for their time. That was fine with them because we already knew each other.

It always depends, dinner can be an ice breaker, also can be fun “after” it really depends on the person and the vibe.
I personally like dinner before , not more than one or two drinks to get in the mood

My stomach is tight. After I eat I have a food baby. Not cute! Lol

Have dessert first jk…well half kidding. My preference would be dessert, dinner, and then a night cap. I completely agree about having play time prior to a big meal. I don’t see why any lady would have an issue with that. Have fun and welcome back to the playground 💋

I've done dinner dates with a few providers both before and after. I would recommend seeing someone who you have seen before, so that you know you can hold a conversation with them for longer than 5 min. I've done both before and after but each time we went out to sushi so we didn't fill out stomachs. Also I'm not a big drinker and the provider knew that but didn't bother them.   Going to dinner is is good because you know what going to happen after but you could also be rushing dinner. But also going after you they could also be disconnected since they all ready have the fee. So you would definitely need to do that with someone who you know well. I also did take out dinner with a provider but that was because of Covid times and not many restaurants were fully open inside and it was winter

I have done it both before and after.  First time was a "before" dinner. I had a bit too much wine and a full stomach, so it took a while to get going during the "dessert" course! Lol!  For me, I find round one, dinner (light), then dessert at the hotel works best.

Playing before dinner is really sexy. You can eat somewhat freely & have time to rev up for dessert . If oysters are on the table everyone is sure to be just fine!

The one time I did a meal date, we had fun before as well as after the meal.

But if I had to choose one or the other, I would choose after. Let's be honest, I'm paying her for fun, not to be a dinner companion.

This is the ideal order for me. Getting out a first round allows room for dinner to be more relaxed. Especially if it’s someone new, getting out our first time jitters seems to make our evening more fun!

i prefer play time and then go to dinner