I'm thinking about popping my cherry of the 500 roses and above price point.  What's the protocall here?   Do the ladies expect a tip at this price point or is it assumed that it is included?  I'm not cheap just have to factor it in.

first of all, if you're paying $500 no one better accuse you of being cheap. Second of all a tip is never included unless itemized on your bill, one of which i'm sure you will not get in this area of activity. Thirdly, if services are provided that either are not normally provided or are out of the ordinary an extra fee may be charged, this is not a tip, it's an additional charge and finally, if after your encounter your head is spinning and you're filled with joy and are on the brink of falling in love then i'm sure a tip would be a nice way of expressing your appreciation.

A tip is not required and at the higher rate should not be expected.  You may however consider bringing along a nice bottle of wine, or fine box of chocolates.

thanks for the thoughtful responses

...I never expect a tip, but it is nearly always left.

Coming from the old school, when my rate was set by others, there is indeed a protocol attached to this sort of liaison, but personally I don't expect one as an indy in the, what you call (and what I guess I am in!) "upper echelon".

Let's just put it this way -- I've had impersonal, expressionless encounters with 120 tips and fantastic repeat encounters with 0 tip.  My ATF never tips.  All I expect is that a good time be had by all.

I hope this long-winded answer helps you.

design.lust

As was suggested, I have brought champagne, and all ladies will share a toast!  I don't do the flowers or chocolate thing...flowers are too conspicuous, and chocolates will be shared most likely with other clients that visit after you.

500 isn;t *that* much (it's all relative) but sometimes an extra 100 when the lady is really into it, more often than not a little gift from Swarovski, Chanel, Dior, a bracelet or necklace...whatever. They may be providers but ALL women like a little gift that are not expected. Juts as a provider can be a pleasant surprise so can her playmates...I gave one of my ATF's out west a bottle of rare single-malt scotch!

I'm incredibly curious to know which Scotch you were kind enough to present to your lady friend. Would you be willing to share this information with the rest of the class?

As for the OP, the greatest "tip" is a return visit. Nothing can better express your feelings of fulfillment and gratitude.

the going split is not that much it is typically a 60/40 split and then additionaly they both split expenses which vary if the lady is touring or staying locally .It is a common misconception . Have a good night ,Kendall

I never expect a tip, lingerie and girlie gifts are a perk

If someone comes to my place, I love it when they arrive with a little something or even a call to ask if I want a Starbucks or whatever.  Lingerie makes it a little more fun, candles are always welcome, chocolate is just a bad temptation!  Not that I won't devour it anyway, I will.
I have often said that the little unexpected treats will be the thing I will miss the most.

Enjoy the upper echelon and I hope I make the bucket list, lol! Having a great time in NYC!

Brennan

You didn't mention the most important issue when deciding whether or not to tip a provider: is she an independent operator, or are you booking her through a service? If she's independent, no tipping is required (although you can always show your appreciation, as mentioned above). If she's through a service, she's likely only getting around half of the rate you are paying, so tipping is usually expected. For $500, at least a $50 tip for an agency girl wouldn't be unreasonable.

I'd love to hear about experiences in your car. Just wondering if the top goes down cause that would be an increase in positions.

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Octavia

Long time.  To change directions again, what are everyones experiences while sailing?  I've done ten extended bareback charters in the US and British Virgin Islands over the past twenty years, and only twice did I fail to not come together with some lovely babe during the outing.  Maybe I should buy a boat, and set sail perpetually between those islands?  An idea for retirement.   BTW, to anyone else whose ever done that, Anegada is the best place to go.  Sailing there requires a high degree of proficiency, and most charters will prohibit it.  But the food there is as good as it gets in the Caribbean, and its remoteness and inaccessibility make it one of the best places on the planet to layover for a day or two...