Im not a regular in the hobby,but it really surprises me some reviewers and their ratings plus experience with providers....why??? in a couple of cases I've made my decision to visit a well reviewed girl just to find out that she is certainly a nice accommodating girl,but in the looks department she is just not good looking at all, I tend to think and decide with my lower head, but honestly in some cases id had to just refuse the service and leave and in some other cases I have stayed and it was not a good experience.

How can a lot of hobbyist find a certain provider hot or attractive and reality is that you wouldn't even turn your head in the street to take a peek at her...lets put it this way...you wouldn't even hit on her while almost drunk in a dive bar.....anyone???

everyone has different standards of beauty?

You also must realize that while not every Provider is a Halle Berry or Angelina Jolie that not every Hobbyist is an Anderson Cooper or Idris Elba?

I don't think you gentlemen understand just how brutal us woman would be on you guys for retaliation if we were the one writing the reviews. I've read some reviews where "gentlemen" just go onto town, bashing some women's looks.

All I can say is take reviews with a grain of salt. Look at the girl's pictures carefully and base your decision on what you see, not what people have written about her.

Luna...I do understand your point, but usually WE the customers write reviews so other customers would have an idea of what they can expect ,I don't agree on writing a review trashing a provider, but you can be honest and just write about your experience...I do know that all providers don't look like HB or Mrs. Jollie...and that what could be hot for me maybe its not for another individual,but trust me one thing I don't understand is a provider that is really hot and in her 20's charging 400 or more and a lady over 50 in no good shape charging the same with pictures on her website dating from maybe 8 years....that is misleading...and still....no reviewer is hones enough to mention it......just  my point of vie

I bet there are some ladies who are in their 50's who deserve just as much if not more than me per hour.  Think of all the improvement that comes with time, experience, and maturity.  Just because YOU are more attracted to us girls in our twenties doesn't mean we are inherently 'worth' more.  And what's your idea of "good shape"?  The shape in the magazines?  Newsflash, those pics are also heavily photoshopped and inaccurate.  You might buy into the lies of the media that there is only one type of body that is beautiful, but most of us do not.

If there is one thing I have learned from the hobby, it is that REAL men have broader tastes in women than the men who control the mass media and shove a singular standard of beauty into all of our faces all the time.

If you're complaining about pictures being wildly inaccurate and no one has bothered to say anything, then maybe you outta pay more attention to who is doing the reviewing.  But it sounds to me like you're just prejudiced against women who you think are less deserving than providers in our twenties who are "in good shape" (again, your personal opinion which is not shared by all reviewers since it is not a universal concept), and you're probably not likely to get too much sympathy about your personal prejudices or complaining about the rates of highly experienced and wonderful providers who happen to be older than you prefer.

My photos are un-retouched except for removing one small tattoo to conceal my identity, primarily because I don't want to end up accidentally seeing some asshole who believes in a singular standard of beauty.  If you don't like my curves, don't come see me!  That's my attitude, but I understand why some ladies feel pressure to or prefer to use re-touched photos that may have that slightly more professional edge to them.  After all, men do control the mass media images of women's bodies and that is the standard of beauty that assholes like you have come to expect.  If you are noticing that this is a problem, then it is.  However there are bigger problems at play than reviewers not being "honest", such as the misrepresentation of women's bodies in our society.

You do REALIZE that we MEN are the ones that is paying for your time...

Why would a provider review a guy on looks ? He is the one who is PAYING.

When he is paying he has a expectation of someone who is ATTRACTIVE, and if he enters a room and find someone who is not to his standards he has every right to leave and write a review based on why.  

If a girl was expecting so much $$$$$$$$$ for their time, the men who is paying are expecting someone that is attractive and to his standard what he would not be able to meet in real life normally.

And if Anderson Cooper or Ibris were providers who charged for their time, they wouldn't dare complain about the looks of the ladies who were paying for their time.

And yes some men are too dumb and spineless to write a truthful review of a person's looks, when they let the fantasy over ride the reality.    This coming from a man, and yes I have no problem bashing some men ...LO

Especially the numerical rankings, but even the Juicy Details.  There have been innumerable posts on this if you'd like to do a search.  The way to get around them is do more homework.  Get to know who the reviewers are whose reviews can be trusted.  PM them for back-channel info.

nycad

Well said Mid aged CEO....!!!

Im under the impression that my post did upset you....but I hope you understand that im a client and you are a provider,you are providing a service for which I pay and I have the right to express my point of wiew....yes...there are ladies in their 50 that are particularly in great shape and hot...BUT...the ones im talking are not...same with girs your age,some are hot...some are not...really liked your final appreciation about misrepresenting womens bodies.....kind of funny....in a business of selling sex....gimme a break!!!

END OF MESSAGE

I agree with you somewhat, but most certainly at the extremes.  My "9" might be someone else's "5" and vice versa.  My "athletic" might be someone else's "thin" but RARELY is someone else's "athletic" thin to me. (I favor "thin".)  

However, if someone has a BMI of 35 and is described as "thin" (or even "athletic"), I've got a problem.  I've also seen some of those!  And what a disappointment that is.  

I have even suggested adding BMI to the stats list on the review form!

By reading reviews, you can learn whose opinions are more aligned with your own and how much you have to adjust those of others to avoid too many disappointments.   PM recent reviewers if you have questions about recent experiences or the reliability of "current" pics.

Good luck

I had this experience  where I pm'd a reviewer about this girl and he said she was cute and this and that,by his description she was hot....long story short...knocked on her door she opened ...and I thought she was a friend of the provider....and no...she was the provider,i said sorry....but I don't think it is going to work.....

You've proved my point!! Now you know that whoever you PMd and told you "cute" has tastes and standards far removed from your own! But seriously, I'm sorry you wasted your time that way but if her pics alone (never mind the PM comments) were misleading - almost bait and switch, "not the girl in the pics" - then you did the right thing to walk away.  

Good luck

I completely understand where you are coming from to a certain extent, however you can't blame another hobbyist for finding a provider attractive just because you don't. Reviews are based on a hobbyists individual experience so you still have to be discerning while choosing a provider. Everyone has different tastes, so simply do your research before booking someone.  
I also do get what you're saying about hobbyists being able to review because they "are paying", however that doesn't take away from the fact that the average escort is usually almost always more attractive than a good deal of hobbyists. Saying that you wouldn't even pick up certain providers "drunk in a dive bar" is irrelevant because that's your opinion. Personally, if men take things to that level in their reviews I completely agree with providers being allowed to dish it back, especially if its someone I wouldn't be attracted to outside the hobbyist environment also.
Just be clear in the review as to whether a provider looks like her pics and preforms well, everything else is not really necessary, and know that we judge you to a certain degree as well, regardless of who is paying.

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As opposed to seeing someone twice and then deciding a month later to be negative.

Cosette,get over it,read the review and tell me where is the negative part,i just wrote my opinion....walking away was an option...but in your case I decided to stay...

I don't get it - she wasn't what you expected, wanted or liked but you stayed...and then you went back AGAIN? And then you trash a provider in a review? WTF is that all about??

I did not trashed her...read the review..im honest....just my point of view

OK - let's look at this another way - you went to see a provider and you had a totally negative reaction from the start but you stayed anyway and had a horrible experience - and later you write a review telling the world that it was so horrible that you RETURNED! Seems this review says a lot more about you than the provider.

I could not care less what you think about me,i just wrote a review and that's it...never mentioned I had a horrible experience,i just wrote what my perception....theres more things I didn't write about because .....that would really be offensive....since im over 21 and I pay for my sexual encounters I do whatever I want and that includes writing a review....is the provider upset because I said she was stocky,short and no model material?? its true....is that a insult.....or being bitter???
I did not mention some other facts.......

I just realized that you are one of the guys that wrote an outstanding review on the provider.....lol...so funny,so I guess you know what im talking about....

Hey Devin - maybe we should introduce him to our favorite Russian - I'd love to see what he has to say after seeing her...twice...assuming he could even talk or write.

Bitter??? why??? because I went back? you can consider me going back kind of stupid......i agree,not turning back....i was horny and i said....what the hell....!!! i don't blame it on her...i say ....it is me....i just described her just the way she is.....why is that mean....??

Your decision to be rude , your choice was harsh and not talking into consideration the feelings of the woman who gave herself to you on several occasions .  Then you took it further and came here to rag more . If you had issues you should have pm the guys after the first meeting , but you didn't .  

I don't know Cosette but I do read her posts , she seems genuine , polite and never harsh even here towards you .  She isn't a rip off and doesn't over sell . You took none of this into consideration . Hell you just wanted to tear her down . Be funny , whatever . Okay did you have your fun ? Was it worth it ?  Do you feel like a man ?  

That's it , l8r .

writing under an alias.....???pleeease....get a life

 

This is the love fest board , head over to the general 1 , we can play there  

L8r .

Wow...I see it really hurt you...byeeeee!!!
 

Again Cosette is a NICE girl , your comments are fit for up sells and ripoffs , you lack class and character , your a bitter man with most likely ED, you make up for your Shortfall with poorly written crude reviews .  Get plenty of hand lotion and give yourself some love you need it .  

 
L8r.

Lol....I think you must be Cosette dad or boyfriend...read my review and read what you have written and tell me who is the bitter one....get over it whoever you are....