i know from my experiences that i have been able to actually get some of you off using only my tongue
can you share your experiences with the great oralists, those that have surprised you by delivering a clitoral orgasm and those that think they give great oral and yet you have to fake it so that their ego's are not shattered
i am using an alias so that i cannot influence your responses
naming names is not necessary but could add to the fun
The BEST tongue bath I ever experienced was from this guy with the smallest cock I had in my escort life.
He went down on me and gave me such an orgasmic heaven with his tongue.
After, I asked how he got to be so good. He pointed to his tiny little cock and laughed. I laughed too, but not in a bad way, he was making a funny joke and it was sweet. He was charming and KNEW he had a handicap, so he compensated the lack of cock with the expertise of his tongue.
The WORST experience is from one of my regulars. I truly LOVE him to death. He's super intelligent, fun, we enjoy each others company immensely for hours ... ... ... BUT he can't eat pussy.
I used to be bald and super soft for him but I had to let my bush grow wild, to be like a 'shield' and prevent my tender skin from abrasions, bites and ... ... ... bleeding!
Once, after I faked this strong orgasm, just to get him off me, I sat on the bed and saw a trail of blood. I thought I got my period and I was horrified! He had blood all over his face too. I wiped him and ran to the bathroom just to find out I was not having my period but had my lips bitten!
So, not only I have this amazon forest just for his appointments, but also I fake a screaming orgasm after 10 minutes, to avoid his biting. I tell him he's getting better and better and make me cum quick. Is a white lie, I can't can't can't tell him the truth. I know it will hurt his ego a lot, so I let it be.
are you still bushy?
Sorry to hear about your worst experience, but women like you bring out the... worst out of men. The louder you scream, the least chance you have of making him change. He's aggressive with you because your response is aggressive. He believes it works and he will never change his rhythm unless you softly and subtly guide him.
In order to achieve and enjoy a real "strong and screaming" orgasm, you must be real and true to yourself and to him.
Do you agree, gentleman?
Anais
I am not going to upset a man who thinks he gives the best oral ever. He's paying me to 'react' like I am having the best orgasm from him. That's his fantasy.
He's not my husband or boyfriend, so why should I tell him he's not good and hurt his ego, kill the moent?
He KNOWS he's not good, but he wants to think he is 'da man' during our encounters and I am paid to make him feel like a stallion.
I love what I do, I have clients I adore (like him) and the last thing I want to do is to make him feel like a bad lover.
1. Sounds that get louder and louder are an encouragement that what he is doing she is approving of. He could easily take that as a queue to 'find the edge of the envelope' as to how aggressive he should be. A guy isn't going to back off the intensity he is giving her unless directed by her that she has orgasmed.
2. From the first time I am with a lady, I establish that I want her to give me her authentic reactions. I've been in this hobby long enough to know women react differently to stimulation and how they express their orgasms. If it is quiet that is fine. If it is loud that is fine. I tell her I want her honest feedback to what I am doing because if I return I will do similar things unless directed otherwise.
Having been on TER for 7+ years now I know that there are a lot of guys who think the woman's body is just a warmer version of a blow-up doll, and is just a toy for their own pleasure, but c’mon guys, are you that narcissistic that you can’t factor in a woman telling you how she likes to be touched so she can get pleasure in the act as well without you feeling all put out?
Reading UC's post, I hope you allowed for sufficient time to heal up after the bleeding episode, or any session with the 'muff masher' before, before seeing another guy.
Try writing the alphabet with your tongue on her clit you should not be able to finish.
First, you try a variety of moves and see which one floats her man-in-the-boat. I've found that flicking my tongue rapidly up and down, very softly, does the trick.
Yes Mr. Inicky46 - your flicking makes me ticking in a goooood way...
yeoza!
It's not the ticking I recall so fondly. It's the serial squirting! (eoDrenchedM) (eoNeedSCUBAm)
You're obviously a fan of Sam Kinison...
The best is when the gentlemen finds true pleasure in it he really devours you like a fine piece of chocolate cake. He starts off slow moving is way down you can tell that he is so into he licks he sucks. The best is when you are bent over and he doesn't just stop at your vagina he tastes all of you. I think the best is when you can tell they can't get enough they are devouring your vagina really sucking all of it.
The best for me has honestly been more than one. Now the worst is when there licking like they are scared, like a bird pecking. I know for me my vagina is so important and always in the best shape most once they start they don't want to stop, so when they do the bird pecking makes me feel out of place. It is so uncomfortable that you almost feel is it me and the whole mood changes.
That is why I can't lie I want to fulfill a guy's fantasy but in natural sincere way and so if something don't work I say it in a nice way and give a little direction. I have to say that every guy so far I have seen again and has been quite thankful. Second, third, etc... things are start looking up all because I gave a little direction. Then the few who weren't comfortable I didn't see again which is okay with me because to fulfill a gentlemen's fantasy you have to be into him and sincerity goes along way....
I think the best is when they start of slow but not bird pecking lick a nice lick, you can tell they can't get enough. It is really great and drives me crazy that while they are down their they have the hand firmly on the inside of one or both inner thighs. Even better is when you are bent over and they come from behind and they are really sucking. If they squeeze your inner thighs just right or your ass, I want them to lick more than just my clit.
The worst is when you can tell its not something they enjoy. They are just doing it cause they are into you and feel obligated because you focused on them so nicely. Its like a delayed pecking like a like ewww, lick ewww and the look on their face is awful. I pride myself on a beautiful always stellar vagina so when I have gentlemen like that I stop him in a friendly way because I see myself slowly fighting of the thoughts of "is there something wrong with me". But before I lay them back to suck their fingers or face wherever my sent lays and put at ease time again cause the scent and taste are stellar.
I think a little direction sometimes if given nicely is not bursting their fantasy. I don't want to be an actress I want them to really feel sincere passion, thats me and it seems to do really well. Also I am a very passionate woman and when I am not feeling it I don't get wet so can't fake it if they can't feel or taste it.
