Thanks to Valerie from An Affair To Remember Escorts (a real sweetheart)

Who alerted me of a nasty post on big doggie smearing the good name of BDJ, using my handle "BDJ4Me"

Just for the record, I took this handle when I first started this hobby. I used BDJ a few times and saw all the gorgeous woman on there web site, so I took the name BDJ4ME, meaning I like those gorgeous woman. I have never received anything special from BDJ (although Jill made me feel like her one and only) nor has my two buddies, Bud and Bunny who were also mentioned in the bogus post on big doggie. Who ever took my handle on big doggie is full of shit and any posts that are made there with the handle "BDJ4ME" is NOT me.

Read my reviews and you will see they are all on par. Some of BDJ girls got great reviews and some didn't.
But by my word they are all truthful and that goes for An Affair To Remember Escorts review's as well.

Again, please note that "BDJ4ME" on TER (me) is NOT the same person as "BDJ4ME" on big doggie



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This is fucked up, I stopped going to UG because of all this highschool bathroom bullshit!!! I hope it stays off of TER!!!

it wasn't you BDJ4ME!! There's been a war going on at TBD amongst posters smearing valid agencies and also smearing other hobbyists with a petty, unethical and sometimes downright nasty series of postings.

It's all very sophomoric, distasteful and HARMFUL to all of us and the industry itself. It would seem there are enough providers and hobbyists to go around with everyone getting whatever they need from the industry without resorting to all this damaging name calling and then some!

Kudos to Valerie of AATRE and Kim of BDJ for trying to make things better for ALL OF US!

We really ought to try to get along with one another!

This must stop! There are enough providers and gentlemen going around. I've been the victim of someone trying to smear my name before and it's not right , actually I looked at it as a compliment that they felt intimidated enough to feel it necesarry to put a fake tbd review (which has been removed, they didnt even get my stats right)

Someone is going to get hurt and/or arrested because of this pettiness, it is a FACT that some agency/provider has gone as far as to call LE when they learn of a persons hotel and room.

I had someone show up several weeks ago and pretended to leave his wallet in the car and never returned. I called the hotel manager and said there was a mouse in my room and promptly had my room changed, which I will do if that ever happens again, hell I'll even take the loss and go to a different hotel just to protect myself and my guests.

This has also happened about 4 times to another LI agency as well as 3 times to an indie other than myself. Know this: I have no problem taking the loss on the hotel if someone comes and doesnt return, (i'm assuming the worst and that is that they might be reporting the room to whom ever sent them, that particular day the guy refused to give the person that asked him to do it the room # because he called me back and I guess heard the seriousness and fear in my voice.
I promise you this is anything befalls me ever, I will not draw first blood but I will make certain that what was done to me will be done in spades to the parties that did it.

Currently aside from that one incident I have not had any problems and wish to keep it that way.

Samantha Summers wishes to stay far far away from this pettiness. I am in no way involved with the bs going on in LI and wish to keep it that way.

I was very surprised to see that post on tbd, and doubted that he even made it, you may notice that a few of the posts were removed because it was the same person using a different alias.

Guys you too will get caught in this cross fire so if anyone asks you to do something you know is not proper say no. A freebie is not worth a corupt concience and the karma that will inevitably come back to you for your miss deeds and wrong doings, it all comes out in the wash! And girls dont know how t keep secrets, come to think of it men are not that good at it either!

just my take on this situation and it makes me sick, every day I get phones calls from girls telling me what been going on, I believe 5% of what I hear and 80% of what I see, I have been subjected to this myself (once and it better never ever happen again or I'm blowing it up)  so I know its not all BS, maybe a bit embellished but there is some truth in what is being told to me and I am smart enough to avoid these tactics, others are not. Enough already, cant we all just get along there are more than enough girls and guys to go around, stop showing such insecurity and worry about your own personal business' and stop concerning yourselves with other agencies and indies.

I say this speaking to no one in particular, the ones doing the stuff will know this is for them as far as any one else it it dont apply let if fly!

p.s. All e-mails from the 25th that were recieved by a certain li agency I never got to read they were accidentally deeted, and I welcome meeting you for lunch or coffee, we do have alot in common.

Sincerely with love and not hostility,
Samantha Summers of NY



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I saw the post,and posted a message on ter. I do not believe that it was approved.
All this accusations is getting out of hand.

That should do the trick

Wow... ok I usually don't get into posting except for schedules but this was a very nice and well put post. Actually a few people said some great things on this board and the other board that placed things in perspective for everyone.

You see in this industry there will be a lot of people who love the fighting, bickering the backstabbing but you know where it gets everyone.. no where and no where quick.

There should be a mutual ground of respect where everyone gets along.It is a hard thing for people to imagine but it is something that we all can work together on and make this business a more civil place.I am not an angel and I don't think there are people who don't like the gossip between people, it happens but we can control it to a point and not let it get the best of us. We are humans and it is important not to hate but to understand.

Thanks for taking the time to read this post, it means a lot to me.

Kim )

I do check into that site once in a while (with the same
handle).  It's a total sewer.  Kind of reminds me of that movie
C.H.U.D.

hobby on!
fr

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Kim:
Very well written, and it's especially poignant coming from you personally!!

I just went over to TBD Board and it appears as though the entire thread that started this whole ruckus from yesterday has been removed wholly and completely!
Our outcries of indignance have been heard!!!

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