I am sorry you are so down on NJ.  This is the second time you have attacked the New Jersey area.  Perhaps your approaches need some fine tuning.  

Its been my experience that when things don't go as planned for me, I don't rush to attack and blame others for lessons that need to be learned.  We have had many lovely ladies visit New Jersey and never seen such disrespectful accusations sent out to the entire state.  They handled what had to be handled in a well mannered way thus getting what they wanted and not making a spectical on one self.

From what I have heard from the clients I have seen that have seen you was nothing short of sensational!  I sure hope you know what your doing by saying these things about New Jersey.

Re:Ladies do it to.

I had several experiences were I went to meet a lady and she never showed. These are well known ladies in Metro NY.
The worst was last year drove into the City went to the hotel and the lady had left for Paris that morning never bothering to call or e-mail. So I drove to the city a round trip 4 hrs tolls,parking and gas took the day off from work.
She answered my pissed off e-mail that she had forgotten.
Now I don't leave home unless I make contact with the SP at least one hour before we meet.
Ma-ling its a two way street out there. But I agree the guys do it more than the ladies.