some womanly advice about what guys should be doing down there would be helpful. a lot of guys have no idea. should tongue be applied around c***t? or should it be gently sucked? should fingers be inserted at same time? think this needs a woman's input.

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What women want varies....

When in doubt, go slow.

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don't waste too much time anywhere other than the clit

apply whole of tongue to said clit as much as possible

persevere ... this all takes time ... be patient!

if need be insert a few digits and go for the G(old)-spot

carry out a double-pronged attack, or better yet triple it!

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of course, a woman's input is always welcome (and over-rules mine

ReATY: Alexia can help

It usually takes women longer to get aroused.  Tease alot before plunging in.  Lick the inner thighs, lick around the lips, tease.  When you finally get to the clit use a hard tongue. Remember your hands can be at work at the same time.  Squeeze those nipples or plunge in with one and then two fingers.  Check the moan pace.  Keep doing whatever you are doing when the moans tell you.  You can also ask, do you like sucking or licking more?Let her know you are really enjoying it.  When she comes some like you to stop, some like you to slow down, some like you to keep doing it.  Play it halfway and feel your way through.  Meet her with a smile afterwards.  And it is true, women can differ on what they want.  Bon apetit!

Thanks HootOwl. a great site. highly recommended.

Each woman likes things a little differently. Let her know your willing to take take direction if you really want to get it right. Also, the clit is not the only sensitive area, the area around it is as well.

I love DATY, almost as much, or more than other activities.  And of course you're correct, there are other sensitive areas, and each gal is a bit different.  That's what makes it so much fun.