After reading many reviews I see that there is a lot of dining going on. Just curious about any safety techniques and/or procedures I should be aware of before I make a reservation.

Thanks!

ReATY & safety

There really is no safe way to DATY. I avoid it altogether with providers, but if you absolutely feel the need to do it, bring a bottle of Listerine and avoid any bumpy looking areas.

If you are concerned (as you should be) then use a dental dam.  Otherwise, you are taking your chances.  Probably not from HIV (although it's possible) but certainly you can catch any number of things from DATY.  Herpes is almost a sure bet considering how many people have it and don't even know.  Something like 20% of the general population, if I remember correctly.

Do providers provide this and how does one bring it up without breaking the mood.

If you feel you need to use a dental dam, why bother with DATY at all?  Licking a piece of plastic doesn't seem like much of a turn on to me.

ReATY & safety

Why DATY anyway? I am paying for her to make me feel good not the other way around. She is getting paid to take the risk not me, although in reality the payment to risk ratio is really totally screwed up. This may sound selfish but we all know that the provider really doesn't give a damn about us. She just wants her money for you to get off and on to the next john. If any of you believe differently then you are only fooling yourselves.

If I had those are worries, I'd stay home and save my money. I mean if you can dive in and get your face soaking wet, your ears ringing from those thigh crunches, what's the point.

I use the same guidelines for anything I eat;

If it smells bad...uh-uh
If it's got strange looking blisters..uh-uh
If it's bleeding....RUN!

But dental dams?.....please....condoms are bad enough!

DATY'ing using anything but loving lips and a loving tongue.  So if you can't stand the heat get out of the kitchen.



-- Modified on 3/9/2005 2:29:39 PM

This is what I'm talking about......Buddym - that's an award I don't mind losing, as long as I get to compete!

Mostly, the reason for DATY is to give her pleasure.  While a CBJ doesn't feel as good as a BBBJ, it still doesn't suck.  (no pun intended)

Likewise, Dammed DATY is better than no DATY at all.

I'm not looking to stir anything up. I'm fairly new at this and wanted to get some input from the more seasoned hobby guys (and providers.) Someone told me a few post ago that the number one rule is safety and the #2 rule was to follow rule # 1. I'm just getting my feet wet with this.... and hopfully some other things too.

as bad as people make it out to be. have yet to try it out tho.

ReATY & safety

Do you want me to teach you how to eat the roast beef curtain? I can give you tips on making providers cum at least 2 times in a hour session. PM me for more details.

"If it smells bad...uh-uh
If it's got strange looking blisters..uh-uh
If it's bleeding....RUN!"

Plenty of diseases are completely odorless and invisible.  

I had someone try this with me recently and I honestly could not stop biting my lip - to keep from laughing out loud - the whole time.  Not only does it *not* arouse me (it tickles more than anything), but I laid there thinking "this guy is doing this because he thinks it feels good to me.  How can I gently break the news to him..."  

Now, I appreciate the "effort", but if it can't be done right, I'd rather just spend the time doing something I really enjoy, which is fucking.  Unless he's paranoid about that, too.  Then I seriously consider making him write an essay on why the hell he came to see me in the first place, before I ban him from class and send him to remedial school.

You guys are just easy.  

You'll take a blowjob any way you can get it.

I will, of course, defer to Kacey.  She would certainly know, better than I, what Dammed DATY feels like.  

While I understand not all of the ladies enjoy or want this kind of foreplay, it does have it's pratical effect. DATY does produce a natural lubrication that makes intercourse more enjoyable. But I'm sure you appreciate your clients oral needs ~*~wink~*~

-- Modified on 3/10/2005 12:21:19 PM

Reo you really think that all diseases can be spotted visually.

Yeah....that wasn't meant to be humerous at all now!

If you're that worried about STDs, then you're certainly not looking for a GFE experience. Cover up everything, duct tape the the condom to be sure, and don't try any kissing either. Come to think of if, stay home, grab some lube, see the 5 sisters and save some cash!