its always nice to maybe see someone in a casual way. A knowing nod, but the illusion is not ruined. Some woman are even sexier that way. I am sure you exuded the same sexiness design.lust.

Now if I could only figure out who the mysterious poster is.

See you in the subway some day

it'd make the provider-hobbiest relationship more intimate. The next time I saw that provider with her "glamourous" look, it'd be something for us to laugh about and have fun with. It's never happened to me, but I think it would be cool.

Dear Luster of Design,
Somehow I get the feeling that your glamorous look is more attributed to good genes rather than time spent before a vanity mirror. With that said, I believe, and I speak for myself, that the only way an illusion such as you decribe can be shattered is if it occurs on initial contact only. Any subsuquent sighting, be it on an uptown train or downtown pizzeria should not be cause to change one's illusions. Conclusion: Meeting a glamorous woman, enjoying "some mighty fine time" then seeing her all moist and in a jersey and shorts on the uptown local would just give me thoughts of our next encounter.  

Dear TER New York folk,

I was riding uptown on the ___ train yesterday when one of my regulars stepped into the car.  While I was outwardly calm, my heart skipped a beat and I smiled inwardly.

An iPod was installed in his ears and he found a seat diagonally some distance away from me.  I am pretty sure he did not spot me as his eyes were glazed over, as often happens on subway rides.  My eyes are glazed over in the train nearly always.

On these really warm days, while I'm gadding about or running errands, I'm pretty utilitarian.  My hair'll be up in some fashion, not a stitch of make-up, a jersey and shorts and trainers with socks.  The ___ train has got to have some of the most swelteringly hot stations in the system, so I may even look moist.

Here's my question.  If you saw a lady with whom you enjoyed some mighty fine time, and really dug her glamourous look, would your illusion be shattered if you saw her all casual?

Thanks for your time.  Have a great day and stay cool.

design.lust

and I have never been a fan of a lot of makeup.  I bet you still looked hot as hell.  Hotness is something that can exude more often than just appear.

BTW, were you at the Summer Mixer and did I meet you?  Parts of that night have become a little blurry. Kind of like when you ride the ____ Train on a steamy morning . . . . . . .

I think you attach too much value to the glamorous look.

Most guys don't notice the things that you spend lots of time to create.  You don't need to do all that work for me to have a good time.

I saw the porn star/Penthouse Pet/Hustler Honey Jessica Jaymes without makeup.  It didn't matter because the most memorable part of the time wasn't her looks.  It was her loud and throaty screams when she was came and her fun loving personality.

I caught Jessica without makeup because she left the door of her room ajar and I entered her room after she failed to respond to knocking on the door.  She offered to put on her makeup, but I declined.

I know that there's a front always, both in looks and character and some folks, even the top rated providers may not look as attractive with their clothes on, and I've met some providers who quite frankly are more sexy when dressed.

As a hobbyist, I would never mind seeing someone in street attire and off the cuff like on a train, rather than the made up person you normally see on a paid date.  Just my .02 of rambling.

Never been a problem.  When either of us was with someone we just kept walking.  When we were both alone, after an "is it ok" look at each other we hugged and greeted each other like old friends and then kept on our way.

No illusion shattered, but then again, I don't go for the illusion.  I don't need a girl to be made up and fancy when I see her.  I prefer her to be comfortable and ready for a good time.

Several weeks ago, I met with one my faves, and she was dressed not in lingerie as she would be normally, but in jeans  and a top that I am used to seeing women dress in casually during the summer.  To be honest, I found her to be even hotter that way.   She told me she had just returned from dinner, and apologized for not having slipped into something more comfortable.  There was no need for her to have done that...when the time came, watching and helping her undress from her civvie clothes was a huge turn-on.

For those ladies that are regs, the relationship will be deeper than just how you want us to see you as a hot and sexy provider.  We are more than happy to see you dressed as you will do in real life.  Hope that helps!

I hope that at the very least you held your passionate moans and shouts "Fuck me harder!!!! Harder!! Harder!!" to a gentle roar!  LOL!

I have actually have met several of my regular providers over the years both by accident and or to help out with the some small thing around their place and casual is cool. My regulars a women I feel I would like in any situation and consequently glamorous or not, they all have an inherent beauty which transcends make-up and fashion. The real question is how did you feel about running into a client, aside from your appearance, would you have been comfortable if he noticed you and obviously was pleased to see you? Would you have wanted him to come by and strike up a conversation. If it was me, that would be my inclination but I am fairly gregarious and like take the time to speak to any acquaintance that I run into on the street, subway, etc.  Unless of course I have an appointment with a friend, then I have to catch up on conversation later....

Dear NY Gents,

I just had my morning juice and eggs and thought to peek in to my post of yesterday.  Thank you all so much!  What a lovely surprise...!

So...in order:

bakrboy -- thank you for being the first responder, and my identity is not at all mysterious!  If you punch in my TER handle into Eros New York my advert will appear, along with images of me and copy written by, yes, me.  A link to my site is also provided for further enlightenment, should you wish.

AMAZIN69 -- I loved your reply.  I never thought of that; it's just this gent is very into my nail varnish, and he always plays a guessing game as to what I'm wearing when I arrive.  I'll never forget the downcast look he sported when he gleefully said "Helmut Lang!" and I replied sheepishly, "Oh, I don't know -- it's from a thrift shop.  Let me check the label"

frankutz -- again, thank you for the very nice comments and amazingly enough, it WAS an uptown local (last week the MTA drove me frantic when they went all express in strange places.)

mankomaniac -- my god, JJ is lovely.  Thank you for bringing her to my attention (I'm a fan of Anita Blond.)  I liked her video intro (reminded me of my fave porn director, Andrew Blake) but her text was even better.  "Join me in my bedroom, my living room, go into the office with me...."  Very, very, very hot.  Especially that office bit.  That'd make me join her in a heartbeat!

Crazy Diamond -- your post did help me tremendously!

PitchingWedge -- I was indeed at the Summer Mixer.  I was the petite Asian seated by the bar with my blonde girlfriend Euro Leah, being monopolised by the gent who I later left with.  Dear gent, I had an amazing time!

Kiss,
design.lust

Dear guillermony,

at first I felt panic.  Then I felt arousal.  Then, I thought, should I exit (but my god, 14th St/Union Square is REALLY very warm, although I like to watch the grates scraping onto the platform.  But I digress.)

Would I have been comfortable if he noticed me first?  Hell yes!  We share many interests and I have a great chemistry with him -- it's just, I think, part of his fantasy is me being this slender, articulate, überfashionable Asian companion he can travel with.  He's just not seen the NYC-dirty version of me, travelling uptown in my ________ ________ jersey and bicycle shorts.  I mean, I'm all showered and everything, just unvarnished, as you will.

Thank you for you post and insight.

Kiss,

design.lust

I've wanted to have sex on trains for years now, shame, shame, shame but there's something about speed and fucking that attracts me. I used to have the same thoughts about libraries until that moved over to the list of 'Fucked'.

Love ya Design Lust!

O

I've often wondered if there is an etiquette when a client and a provider bump into each other in a public place.

Obviously no approach should be made if either one has company, but otherwise?  Should I as a client wait for an acknowledgment from the provider?

Just curious.

Dear, dear Octavia,

we need to fulfill that fantasy.  Let's go to Europe and be all naughty in the First Class compartment of the ICE, and/or be all naughty on a sleeper from Frankfurt to Berlin.

Kisses everywhere, and I am soooo sorry I was late on that Thursday!  That is not like me.  E-mail me, dear, and let's plot!

design.lust

Okay...that's what I initially thought, in a brief panic.  Thank you for replying.  However, I still always get catcalls in the street in my jersey and shorts and trainers and socks.

It is difficult to pitch tents in my neighborhood.  Otherwise I am certain there would be encampments instead of condos!

design.lust

sex on public transportation ....i got laid on a path train from penn station to jersey city late at night. a blow job on the red eye from from denver to new york and a hand job on flight from jfk to brussels. the path train was my girlfriend and the two others were with complete stangers. had to share that.  

There is nothing I enjoyed more with my long time, all time ATF who unfortunately recently left town, than meeting her on the streets of NYC in civvies sans make up. She is so naturally pretty and attractive that I found her far hotter that way. It was nearly like seeing her in public Au Natural!!!!
I sure miss her!!!!!

The thing I cannot understand, as one who has had the pleasure of the lovely design.lust's company, is how a gentleman could be so "out of it" as to not notice her, even in her most "unvarnished" state;  the man must have been blind.  

And Design.Lust: absolutely great web site by the way, I had no idea we shared an interest in typography.

A gentleman never tells, at least in public, but please feel free to PM me and I will be glad to clear up the mystery.

so if i found myself on a train and I knew her from the hobby scene; I would had approached her all sweaty and all.

I'm just as into the casual look as the made-up look anyway

Dear rimbaud913,

I am absolutely astonished that 702 people have clicked on my post; however I am even more astonished that...oh, hell, I'll just ask -- have we ____ed?

I am pleased you like my site; I'm rather proud of it.

bakrboy echoed my thoughts exactly here:  "Now if I could only figure out who this mysterious poster is...!"

Kisses in any case (perhaps you already know I'm rather good at those?)
d.l

I will email you and all will be revealed, not much of a mystery in reality.

as a basic TER member, I'm unable to PM and do PM things.

I am the Reviewless Wonder, I think...!

So there will always be a little mystery in my life...as I wonder who you might be.

d.l