Just wondering....lots of providers will give you BBBJ but they do not want to go  TC; "tell me when you're cumming."

Have any of you, well...um...not managed to tell them? How pissed off were they? Did you give an extra tip?

I'm sure this must've happened. I'd be interested in the providers' viewpoint about this too.

Haven't managed to not tell them. Not a cool thing to do, though. I have a couple of provider friends and they get very upset when you don't accept their restrictions. Many of them will terminate the encounter right then and there. The ladies do backchannel among each other and the word will eventually get out if you make a habit of this. You're better off seeing someone who offers what you're looking for.

I have to agree with this one.  If you do not warn her, and she has made it clear that she doesn't do it....expect the worst.  I know several girls that will ask you to leave, without ANY refund.  They will blacklist you.  We communicate with each other constantly. To alot of the girls, this would be viewed as dangerous behavior, right up there with attempting BBFS. Refereneces are important to alot of us....there went yours. Everyone is different and alot of girls offer what you are searching for.  It's just easier to know going in, than to have the encounter turn into a fiasco and both of you walk away disappointed and ticked off. Just my .2
xxoxo
Missy

I mean, get real... in the heat of passion, massively turned on, its probable that the typical man is going to lose it before he knows what hit him, especially charged up younger guys. Reality check. Provider chooses to perform BBBJs for whatever reason, primarily economic, doesn't matter, SHE has made the conscious decision to enter higher risk territory, the SHE wants to shift the entire blame on the guy ? Any normal fella is going to want to keep the pleasure coming until the last possible moment. Sure, if he has his wits about him he might give a five second warning, now what if they've had a champagne or some fine sensimilla ganja or he isn't sexually experienced or about a thousand things... oh please please please... then throw an indignant scene about what this awful man did ? Thats about as swift as playing with matches then being awestruck when the house burns down. If you're not willing to pay an adult's price, then don't play an adult's game.

I ask providers what I can and cant do at the begining of our session. My first provider actually offered this pleasure (I found out from her reviews) and I still asked first out of courtesy and respect for her. If youre not sure, just ask. If they dont offer that particular service, they will politely decline. I wouldnt just go ahead and do it and then say "oops sorry"! Respect her and her rules. Maybe at the end of your date, she can refer you to a provider that will offer what youre looking for. I havent been in this hobby for too long, but I know for sure that you should always be respectful to providers and never burn bridges. Otherwise, your hobbying days will be over. Just my .3

Happy Hobbying All!

See my review by JL.

She won't notice at all.

WOW....you're a BIG girl to point that out.
Butt, your recovery seemed sensational.
My hat is off to you Michelle!

maybe I misinterpret your intention. There's a functional difference between ignorance, just plain not knowing what the deal is, and STUPIDITY, in flashing neon letters. STUPIDITY is doing stuff you know in advance is risky, not to say dangerous, then throwing a two bit tantarum cause life done you wrong when you crashed daddy's car into the tree. This world is chock full of "victims" who set themselves up for every kind of pain and disappointment then get up in front of the Judge Judys and blubber about the awfulness of men or the awfulness of women or the awfulness of board moderators or the awfulness of who knows what. The fundamental problem is that they refuse to take one ounce of responsibility for their own contribution to the situation. It is always 100% the other guy. They can't be blamed for driving blind drunk the wrong way down the freeway, no sir, it was that jackass who wouldn't get out of the way quick enough. Cuts two ways. My pretty little hooker girlfriend tells me what a bunch of arrogant halfwit men a certain proportion of her customrs are, they're coming to her cause they cant get any play cause they don't have any insight into their own natures, and as a rule, they don't exactly take criticism well, and the wonder why even the hookers won't open up to them... this street runs two ways as you can see.

sheeeez, you holding yourself up as the Gracious Gentleman Of The Hour so we can all genuflect to your sensitivity and moral superiority ? Reality Check version II... if these ladies are so pained about male orgasmic malfunction, why don't the insist on a condom until they've seen the guy enough to size him up and he's a known quantity ??? Doesn't that strike you like a modicum of common sense ? Reality Check III, if you've been active in this little side trip on the great interstate highway of life for more than about two weeks, you know that this is a pretty darned unfiltered social environment, it's that risky, you don't precisely know what to expect quality that's a major turn on, and if you think I'm talking out my wazoo, how come you don't want to have the same old sex with the same old gal for the rest of your days??? You wouldn't be here if you didn't want to get your freak on, whether mildly or wildly. There's some profound spiritual beings here, some sociopaths, some mediocrities, and the kitchen sink thrown in for flavor. Now if you're in the biz, this is your bread and butter, you hopefully know by now that no two guys are wired the same, some will be on their best behavior, some have ejaculatory control problems, some will have behavior control problems, some come from good environments and some come from not so good environments. Anybody who has more than two brain cells to rub together for warmth knows that and factors it in. If some stranger throws himself across the bed and you light in to a BBBJ, you have no way of knowing what his situation is. Maybe he missed a dose of blood pressure medicine and is on hair trigger. Well, if you're running the circus you have to know how to work with the animals. You maybe have a back up plan, like some real strong mouthwash ready to go just in case there's a little spillage ? Does pre-orgasmic clear semial fluid count ? I produce a lot of that, it dribbles down my, um... lingam. Does that call for bringing the curtain down ? Seriously, Mr. Sherlock Holmes, do you ever think through these nuanced scenarios ?

There is plenty of time to tell your provider when you're about to come, no matter what your medical condition or state of excitement at the time.  Providers know a lot more about men than you profess to know, based on your long-winded responses.  It's clear that you're trying to justify an action that is not only offensive but dangerous.  Please try to set an example of men being smarter than their penises, or this hobby is going to curl up and die a gooey death.  And I sure as hell don't want that to happen because of the likes of you!

First of all, wrong, second most will pull you out lasst
minute which is worse than planning ahead.
   I ask, and lots say yes.
   Also, if you ask nicely, some will say no but ok
to come on face. If you try to surprise them, it won't
work, and they'll HJ you or you'll have to just come on
tits or a pillow.
   Best to ask and cooperate.
   I've even tried this but it doesn't work either:
with C: I sat on her neck on top of her. I pinned
her arms with my legs (I didn't have nerve to hold
her arms down with my hands). NEVERTHELESS: just as
I was about to come, C somehow managed to free one
hand she yanked it out and shot it on her tits only.
   And do U know Y?  She fuggin remembered me: my
first with her I was about to CIM, she pulled me out
and moved her head away and CLOSED HER EYES. So I
dumped on her cheek, she didn't complain ... but
our second meeting I got NADA.