I was wondering if hobbyists would like to partake in this conversation. I sometimes think sex is so intrinsic to the cerebral and I find myself more into a session by noticing the small gasps, eyes and enthusiasm of a client...or a release of tension. That's why I love the bodyrub world because it's a sensual climax. I don't know I was just wondering Sex Vs. Sensuality. Also happy Thursday.

...as long as the sex is good I'll talk all you want... after.  Not gonna pay for a convo though.

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I find a good portion of the excitement of a meeting with my ATF is the days and nights before we are scheduled to be together.  Fantasizing about what we are going to do, what we can do different, getting her thoughts on what we might add to the enjoyment, etc.  It is a very erotic period of hyper-sensuality that can go on for days or even weeks leaving up to the actual meeting itself.   I am going through that right now with my ATF, will see her in a few weeks but we email daily about ideas, nasty thoughts, etc and it keeps me so aroused it is almost unbearable!!  But I love it!!

In a perfect world, sex can be a natural part of a sensual and intimate encounter.  If I had to choose, I would choose sensuality and intimacy every time.   Those things make for a more spiritually and physically satisfying experience.  Sex with neither of those things usually just winds up being mechanical and depressing.  

I completely agree