As a woman I know and understand where the idea of only being with a well reviewed lady comes from. I would probably in most shoes feel the same. However it is also a catch 22 for some ladies who happen to be a good one what if one day you leave, or your family or possibly a career path then you to shy from reviews cause they could later cause issues. Then there are men who also shy from giving them really more so now after the madam sting. I am really new to this yes but I am not new to making a man feel out of this world because I too want compassion. I think when it becomes just a task and not a friendship is when things go seriously wrong. I don't even know why men would visit her place first she sat back pretty while the girls did a job. Sorry just thought I would vent because enough news already and well it is just a shame for all men and women who are engaging in amazing and fulfilling friendships. Have a wonderful Wednesday everyone and hope you all get to have fun today and everyday.