ONE of the BIGGEST mysteries to me of this thing SOME of us refer to as "The GAME" is the following -
How can a "pro," either VISITING or JUST starting out, NOT come prepared to "the GAME" which in NYC is like playing in the MAJOR leagues.
For example, this past week, I've had THREE separate "pros" who, for lack of a better term, "FLAKED" out on me.
The first, someone I MISTAKENLY believed had it together and with whom I felt I established a GOOD rapport, FLAKED out on me when she noticed my reviews on "T.E.R." (90% percent of which are POSITIVE, BTW).
The second, a BEAUTIFUL visiting "pro" also gave off POSITIVE vibes and offered to call me back to confirm an evening appointment. She DIDN'T call, her Google voicemail WASN'T set up, so one couldn't leave a MESSAGE, and her e-mail address also DIDN'T work.
The last one, a MAJOR PS, offered to call me back to set up an appointment. Again, she didn't call back either. When I texted her to find out what happened, I never heard back.
So, "ladies," how do you think you can come into a MAJOR market like NYC, perhaps the BIGGEST "market" in the U.S., and NOT come prepared, or treat POTENTIAL customers like SHIT?
THIS is NYC. The old saying goes "if you can make it here..." You know why? Because if you can STAND out from the COMPETITION, you can write your own ticket. Otherwise, you're ROADKILL here.
There's a saying in the hood, where I come from, which SOME pros should take to heart -
"Come CORRECT or DON'T come at ALL."
True dat, my friends, TRUE dat. 
"ANYONE?!...ANYONE?!..." 
I guess there could be 3 scenarios of to what happend-
They either overbooked themselves, 2) were scared/intimidated to meet you because you don't "10/10" all providers you see which is just lame on their side, or they got a bad vibe from you?
Anyhow - stick to NYC based escorts . or once who are well established with great reviews , a p411 account and their own site 
Happy Sunday,
Xoxo Mika
Thanks for reaching out, luv!
Best as I could tell, these were LITTLE "girls" pretending to be WOMEN.
One of them could tell I was gonna smell her BULLSHIT a mile away, and RUIN her scam, so it was probably best that she CANCELLED on me, for her sake, but I did tell her that the "truth" EVENTUALLY comes out.
If a reviewer ONLY gives "10/10" all the time, either he's a) lazy, b) a SHILL, or c) the LUCKIEST bastard alive. Whenever I read a review that seems TGTBT, I go back and glance over the reviewer's past history to see if he's LEGIT or not.
The other "pro" who FLAKED out on me was a WELL known porn star that MAY be suffering from substance abuse issues, so that may have come into play (her past work on VIDEO is still among the BEST I've EVER seen!).
And the other? well, she's the type whose used to having "tricks" put up with ANY of her SHENANIGANS because she must be REALLY hot (at least her PICS were. Never got to see her in person). That WASN'T gonna be me. BEAUTIFUL women DON'T impress me. INTELLIGENT, CONSIDERATE, beautiful women do!
Putting that aside, can I just say you have a KICK ASS website?
I mean, I've seen them all, some quite GOOD, but yours is UNIQUE!
People - rather than have to go through the trouble of having to search for, and click on a video, "Mika's" site OPENS with a WELL produced video itself, which should pretty much seal the deal for anyone INTERESTED.
I suggest ANY and ALL "pros" who use this board take a peek at "Mika's" site.
It's cutting edge and it's the FUTURE!
later, luv!
No need for thanks.
The truth is the truth.
I'd wish you luck, but with your KICK ASS website, and your "goods," you DON'T need it.
All the best, luv...
I was just out there around July 4th time, it was very dead, but I would love to make another trip back out as the city is so amazing!!! 🏙
Oh man, it was "The Walking Dead" around here July 4th!
You RARELY ever get the city to EMPTY out like that!
I guess due to the holiday falling on Tuesday, many New Yorkers took advantage and took off.
I told my favorite "madam" to hold tight, the "biz" was gonna be SLOW that weekend, according to what I saw in the city.
Feel sorry for anyone who came out hoping to score.
That was a "train in vain."
btw, ladies, I just don't get "P411."
No pics, no reviews, AND you have to pay a yearly fee?
Think I'll pass, thank you.
P411 is meant to be a verification site so I don't think you'll find reviews there. It's only worth it if its used in the area you're in. My understanding is that in some cities it's not used at all and in others it is.
sometimes the girls are not really pros, but just starting out.
Reviews can be bought, thats a whole another story...
I would love to get together and promise I won't flake
DISAPPOINTING, really.
I mean...,you come here, to NYC, to conduct "BUSINESS," right?
All I ask, "ladies," is that you act ACCORDINGLY.
It's not ROCKET science, people.
I just DON'T get how some "pros" operate, ESPECIALLY towards a NEW client.
That NEW client that you "flake" out on could've been ONE of the best clients you would have ever had, with ALL the attributes you require.
But if YOU don't give THAT client a chance?
You know the old saying?
"YOU SNOOZE, YOU LOSE"
It's that simple, people.
As for YOU, darling ReneLiz, you're not NORMALLY my type (I USUALLY prefer OLDER, thicker "ladies"), but I have to add you to my "FAVORITES" list.
PERSONALITY and grace goes a LONG way with me!
Thanks for reaching out!
Maybe you didn't meet screening requirement, or afterward something odd about you popped up and they decided you were not worth perusing. It happens all of the time. Just try again and stop whining.
Excuse me, young lady -
NOBODY is whining.
THIS is a DISCUSSION board, a place where "people" "discuss" things.
It is NOT meant for people like YOU to tell ANYONE to "stop whining."
If you DON'T like it, I believe there's a board for ADVERTISING, strictly.
That might be MORE appropriate for you.
Good night.
the way that my post reads makes it seem like I was attacking you but It was honestly not my intention. Have you tried reddit.com/r/rant/
you are experiencing so many cancellations is that you are from the hood.
I may be FROM the HOOD, but I am not OF the HOOD.
I hold BOTH a BATCHELOR'S and a MASTER'S degree.
I'd bet MY life I earned THREE times what YOU earned last year.
I'd bet MY life that I've been with OVER ten times the LADIES, both pro and non pro, that YOU have, sir.
If you need PROOF, name the TIME and the PLACE, and I will gladly show you PROOF of my claims, as well as TEACH you how to speak to a MAN in a RESPECTFUL tone.
Name it, bro.
between being "FROM the HOOD" as opposed to being "OF the HOOD"? I suspect you will continue to experience more cancellations. At no fault to the providers.
Hey, "white knight," feel free to step off the edge of the EARTH at your earliest convenience.
In the meantime, PLEASE move on.
Your INSTIGATING presence is NOT welcome on THIS thread.
Good day, SIR.
Like you, I am in NYC and I see top providers at the high end of the price range. Two nights ago, at a date booked a week ahead, when I walked in the provider (my second time with her) was 2 hours in to a major personal crisis. She held herself together for a glass a wine and then completely fell apart. I asked her why she didn't get a hold of me beforehand and just cancel, and she said she didn't want to disappoint me. I hung out with her for a few minutes, made sure had a friend on the way to help, told her not to worry about me, left the envelope, and went on my way. Followed up with an email checking in, making sure she knew I was going to reschedule when she was up for it.
Subsequently, I've received 5 emails, thanking me, promising me all kinds of above and beyond goodness, and throwing out dates to meet again.
I have had never had anyone no show/no call me.
If Aaron Judge goes down swinging three straight times on an outside cut fastball, do you think he blames the pitcher and just keeps doing the same thing, or does he look at the video, look for the flaw that caused it, and fixes it? My guess is he's in the batting cage after the second time because he's a professional.
You should be comfortable with your persona. But if the way you wrote your post is anything like how you try to set up dates, I think you're going to be losing a lot of women to guys who take a more friendly and less strident tone, like me, the guy who never gets stood up.
Point TAKEN and APPRECIATED, sir!
As for my TONE on my original posting, obviously it's STRIDENT and PROVOCATIVE and meant to generate a REACTION on this MESSAGE board, which it OBVIOUSLY did.
It should go WITHOUT saying that if you take said tone with MOST "pros," THEIR reaction would be a JUSTIFIED "see ya later, bud!"
And I never said I "struck out" with THE majority of "pros." MOST of my encounters with "pros" have been of the WARM and CONVIVIAL sort.
No, what UPSET me was that THESE ladies, NEWCOMERS to the "biz," were charging MAJOR league (for the MID tier market) prices, yet providing MINOR league SERVICE, and I, for one, wasn't going to STAND for it, when I've been with "pros" who charge HALF that, yet were giving TOP NOTCH, 2K/hr service. It's NOT fair to the "GOOD" ones, and THOSE "other" ladies won't be getting a DIME from me. Let some other "pump and dump" chump fill THEIR coffers.
That's all I'm saying.
But thanks for your OBVIOUSLY informed perspective, sir. Much appreciated.
If only the men on the board can know who you REALLY are LoLo; then they would UNDERSTAND WHY the "Pros" are NOT interested in meeting you! Self entitlement will NOT get you anywhere no matter how many reviews or whitelist you have.
Do you like how I use CAPS in some of my words? It's stupid lol and any common sense person who reads your previous posts can put things together and understand why you are who you are!
Carry on!
I'm sorry...and YOU are?
Actually, what YOU, sir/madam, are is NOT welcome to post on THIS thread.
I believe the usual term for YOUR type is "TROLL."
Please do your "TROLLING" elsewhere.
Good day.
Sorry but maybe after speaking to you, they just weren't interested. I have really dominant and rude guys call me and within the first 2 minute phone conversation I know I don't want our paths to cross if they sound too needy too greedy or too much work. I just pass, I wouldn't let you know that I'm not interested because you will get your "feelings" hurt and you might try to f*** with my business by writing fake review or something of that nature. I just wouldn't get back to you and you will get the hint eventually.
But then again there is a lot of unreliable girls out there because this is not their full time job and they don't take it as seriously. Try to go for the more reputable providers who care about their job.
sometimes life does happen and you never know what is wrong with them, maybe they got kicked out of their hotels or something bad like that happened?
Of course it's him. Why the fuck would you respond to an e-mail with an 'emphasis' at random and pointless spots? I doubt a phone call with him is much better. You can't draw a trend line with only two point, but with three you clearly can. Sorry bud, it's on you why they flaked, new or experienced. And BTW, anyone can post here. It's a public board.
Sure, Andrew, ANYONE can POST on HERE and on ANY of the MANY other TER boards.
The question is whether you are WELCOME to do so, and the answer is...NO!
Good day.
(And people WONDER why MEMBERS don't post MORE? Really, with LOSERS and TROLLS like THESE? SMH...) 😠😠😠
This is a "discussion" as you mentioned previously. A "discussion" welcomes everyone to share their true feeling whether they are favorable to you or not. Its not personal.
Thank you for your INFORMED opinion, luv.
Much appreciated, unlike the "TROLL," who initially responded, who is NOT!
Nah Kiki they were just being UNPROFESSIONAL.
If you're gonna charge TOP NOTCH "prices," you MUST then provide top notch SERVICE, and that service BEGINS as soon as you answer the PHONE.
What I don't get, Kiki, is that if YOU can behave in a PROFESSSIONAL manner, WHY can't THEY?
AND, Kiki, these "ladies" were charging TWICE what you do! TWICE! 😠
How is that FAIR, to YOU, who do RIGHT by your customers (and have the GOOD reviews to PROVE it!) or to their CUSTOMERS, who may MISTAKENLY believe such behavior is ACCEPTABLE?
You tell me...
(BTW, LOVE your site, Kiki! Looks GREAT on my TABLET. You GO, girl! 😉)
Random Capitalization Syndrome that is.
Besides looking like an idiot, it makes you look like someone off his meds to boot.
Putting an occasional word in Caps or parenthesis for emphasis is one thing, just randomly doing so makes you look retarded. Or maybe it's what you have to say that makes you look retarded? Either way you look retarded. I just thought you should know. LMFAO.
BTW, although I don't know the women in question, I am putting my money on "they just don't want to meet YOU" and just in case you missed it the first time, you look like a retard.
Hey, ASSHOLE, is your life SO lonely and EMPTY that you go around "trolling" members for KICKS ?
Do you REALLY think I give a DAMN what YOU think about ME or your opinions on my use of CAPS?
Um, news flash - I DON'T!
Now get back to your "WORLD OF WARCRAFT" game, son. The rest of your JUNIOR HIGH classmates are depending on you! This board is for GROWNUPS.
Good day 😉!
Right...
Thank you for your AMAZING insight.
Now, WHICH is the "emoji" for INTENSE sarcasm?
Good day.
You are trying to talk Russian? lol
I 100% agree with you. Anything less jovial about a potential date makes me stop all contact right away without any follow-up. Their mannerisms, language, tone of voice, attitude, the location, etc.
... is HOW it's done, SHOULD be done, SHOULD always be done..., TODAY and always.
Learn, "ladies," learn.
...I will be posting a fantastic review of her.
Still couldn't teach you English. Go figure.
Brother, name the TIME and the PLACE, when you can bother to step from BEHIND your COMPUTER screen with your PALE skin and DARE say that to my face, MAN to MAN.
Otherwise, there are PLENTY of OTHER threads that I'm sure would love to get your OBVIOUSLY "insightful" commentary.
So sick and tired of junior high TROLLS like you.
(SMH...)
Welp I can say it can happen both ways. I was dragged to New Jersey by a well known hobbyists only to meet briefly as he tried to feel me up and rub his peen and then as I waited in the hotel lobby he left....but he sure did make sure to send me texts about his cock and how excited he was. He proceeded to block my numbers leave me stranded in New Brunswick...oh and after I vigilantly got a hold of him....he told he will reimburse me on Monday....and that he will call the cops on me or write me a bad review. Wasted 300 dollars....learning experience. So I understand how frustrating that is....but wow I was taken on a rollercoaster
Thanks for SHARING, Kayla!
Guess it can happen the OTHER way, too!
Why anyone would leave a FINE chocolate sista like yourself stranded ANYWHERE is beyond me!
First, I am sorry this happened to you.
I bet I know who did this to you. He is a well known scammer that gets ladies to come to New Brunswick. He uses other guys handles, so you may think he a well know hobbyist, but he's not.
I will PM you the info. To avoid situations like this, I can also teach you how to check if a guys handle is really his.
GOOD looking' out, young lady!
Hats off to you!
