only spending time with us for the monetary gain and not for the love of companionship

While you may have a point in some cases, there is a kind of sublimely sensual and unfettered erotic connection that one can enjoy in the arms of a providing partner when both are on the same page about their wants and needs. Don't give up! There are many providers who seek to enjoy the people they see as more than just a dollar sign....They practice eros as an art form.

oh my god....laurenR you are spectacular

I'm pretty sure it has to do with my razor sharp wit and boyish charm.  LOL!

It does seem like I'm much more sexually attractive to them after I put down the envelope. I thought it was just a coincidence.

facetious (adj)
1. characterized by levity of attitude, stated in a joking manner

Of course at first, but I am very surprised about how cool the situation can get when you start doing crazy things outside the room.

Of course, I must reply.    The original poster is a genius.   Clearly.

I absolutely love a marathone of great sex where the desire just
increase with forplay, role playing and teasing.

When i get together
with a gentleman i hope that he will be curious about my body and
an attentive patient acommodating gentle lover
so i can be my natural lustful salacious self.

However not all guys have the will to create lustful desire in bed.

Some avoid having a converssation which to me is a total turn off.
Others refuse to caress my body or touch me in places and
how i prefer, turning me off instead. For some their idea of forplay is to
manipulate my private parts the whole time. Which is also undesirable.

When some of the above is happening i just lead to pleasure the gent and i avoid him
having too much contact with my body.

For it is not fun to be with a desinterested guy in bed.
If you are too tired to be coopertative and a good listener, allow
the lady to lead, for we are mostly preocupied to give you the most pleasure for your donation.