Almost once a week. Maybe I have a problem.

I too tend to repeat when I click with someone.  I've found that I am very, very particular.  As a result, seeing someone new has downside risk.  I've been fortunate to find a handful of ladies whom I would see any time.  Some I have seen only once so far, some I've seen 3-10 times.  It's always good with them.  In fact, it's very, very good.  Variety can be a good thing, but quality is what I look for, especially if I can get it with little to no downside risk.

A retired friend had an ATF whom he saw nearly 30 times.  He claimed it got better every time.  I think he got extra menu items and OTC time too.  Those are the benefits of being United Premier 1K.  

I started out in the hobby as a 'variety guy', rarely repeated, and never more than 3x.  After a couple of years in the hobby now, I have decided to try a different tack for 2014, and transition to more of a 'regular' guy.  I went on a bit of a splurge the last few months and have met some terrific ladies to date more regularly.  I look forward to seeing how things change, hopefully for the better, After 3rd date and beyond.  So far, so great!

...well, most of us anyway. (e)

When you get together multiple times with one particular provider, and you feel an initial connection, each successive times is better and better. I get more and more comfortable with the provider and my performance abilities go up. I can last longer because I feel more relaxed.  

There's been occasions when I've been quick draw McGraw, because I've been overly excited. 2nd, 3rd time - or more and bangin' like a celeb stud. LOL!

....But then there are the occasions when on a first meeting I can go on and on.  

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I've seen a provider off and on over 7 times this year and several others as repeats once or twice.  I would ideally like to find a friend with benefits and so not have to shell out the cash, but with my work schedule... And the wife... It's tough, so I guess I'll continue as a hobbyist for the foreseeable future.  As for repeats, if a gal treats me right, I want more of the same from her.  There are so many blah providers out there, that when you find a gem for the right price, enjoy her as long as she keeps answering the phone IMHO.  Which doesn't mean you can't mix it up once in a while for spice in life.  For safety sake though, sticking to the same is better.  There is risk enough between LE stings, thieves, crazies, etc. that when you find a good one, stick with her.

Variety is the spice of life but not always everything nice.  

I have one atf that I have been seeing off and on for the last 3 years and I had atf that I saw almost on a biweekly schedule for 6 months straight till she retired.  I do have another one that I am looking forward to seeing for the third time.    

I will always see the right lady as much as I possibly can.  For me, making a connection means so much more than what she does and just having a new flavor.   When I started this over a decade ago, I was like a kid in a candy store, meeting everyone just because I could.   When I finally meet my atfs, I realized how having a great connection and chemistry could ignite the passion even more.  
Having experienced such great connections, it does make it difficult when you do see someone else, because you are expecting that same level of passion as you did with the other lady.  But you have to realize the new lady is not your atf and its time to make a new connection.  

KL69069 mentioned risk and I have to agree with him.  One of the best part of seeing someone regularly is you are more comfortable because the risk is minimized.  I have spent the last year and a half trying to meet new ladies and it has been a challenging time.  Too much risk and uncertainty for me.    

I have two diamonds now, I don't mind sitting on the sideline till I find the next one.

The more times you meet with any particular lady, the better the experience is likely to be,  In the decade I've been hobbying, seeing the ladies I like/love on an ongoing basis has been more gratifying I think than once and done.  I have ongoing relationships with over a half dozen lady friends that go back for years in most cases, each of whom are special in her own way to me.  There are also a handful of ladies that are no longer providers, some of whom I haven't seen in years, and may never again, that I was once friends with.  They still have a place in my heart as well.      

In short, it's quality, not quantity...

...with my faves.  I'm another one with particular tastes, so when I find someone I like I tend to repeat.  There are a few ladies whom I've been seeing regularly for years.

Make no mistake--I do branch out and see someone new from time to time, and some of these women become part of my regular contingent.  But that's just the way I roll; I understand those who like to always mix it up--it's a personal decision.