Ok.  So I am a first timer to the escort hobby.  I have done the massage thing and F/S massage thing to which I have 3 reviews on TER.  I am trying to meet a wonderful provider in NYC where I work or Hudson Valley where I live.  Problem is as a first timer I have no references.  What can I do?  was thinking of going to Jewels in NYC but I am not sure if that will help me with a reference afterwards.  Any help would be greatly appreciated.  Thank you.