Prospero:Here's the scoop (and I do wear contacts): 1) The gender conversion of males to females is much more common than people think. If you do a google search on the subject, you'll see some estimates as high as 25,000 in the ny metro area alone!! Since many of these convertees do not or cannot get a regular job (as they may be discovered from daily interaction with their coworkers), going into the industry as a provider is a quick option for them. There are a few houses in ny (Miss Juli...s, Ster...Ladies, ny escap...des and Kamas...tra) that are pretty much exclusively filled with transexuals.2) Doctors do an amazing job at creating female genitalia. Hormones do the rest by creating breasts (most often somewhat saggy tho, as they lack full female mammary glands), relatively soft skin (tho sometimes somewhat scaly), and full bodied hair (tho again, somewhat thinner than a genuine female).3) What doctors and hormones can't do however, is to make structural changes in bone structure, and that's where you should be looking. If there's a large ribcage, if the hands seem larger than they should, if the arms look like there were once muscles and now largely flab or fat, if the waist and/or hips seem unnaturally large, if she's unusually tall, if the ass seems more like your own than it should, if there's an excess of body hair, if there's an oily feeling to the skin from hormones........(I could go on and on).........well, the answer to all of the above in my book, is to leave and don't go back. So here's the answer to your upcoming question and a question I've thot of.....Q: How come most men don't see this? A: By the time we get into the room, we're so horney that we tend to overlook these little oddities. So it doesn't really matter, we don't think about them and look for the great time we're anticipating...And after a few minutes, nothing really matters anyway....Q: What did I do when I first discovered this. A: Well, I went all the way to completion at all four places mentioned above...But with a strategy. After the first one, at each of the above places, the answer to my rather embarrasing question "Were you born female" was met with embarrased looks and laughter. One answered no. Three had no comment.Needless to say, I'm much more discriminating now, and just leave if I see any of these oddities.Just food for thought.