Hey there I am new to the business and i have been getting people asking me to white list them after I have seen them. I will be in NYC next week and i had a client ask if we got together next week would i white list him. Is it that important being white listed? Is one visit enough to white list someone and lastly would you (the the ladies ) really see someone just because they are white listed?
Just curious what other people are doing
Audrey Sae
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To me White Listing shouldn't necessarily be a form of endorsement. It is simply a way for a lady to say I'm willing to serve as a reference for you. And that should be done only if you are comfortable with verifying the guy and OK with taking the time responding to inquires.
The value of a White Listing is I as a potential client can direct you to my White List. They all have links to their Profiles and thus you have easy contact info. Saves me the lazy hobbyist from having to send you all that info.
In other words never take for granted a dude with multiple WL Referrals is perfectly OK. Still contact a few ladies with your normal verification questions.
And demanding a WL Referral as a requirement for booking is as inappropriate as demanding a good review before scheduling a guy.
At least IMHO.
For some people, being whitelisted is handy. Because I don't know my schedule in advance, I often need to try to book last minute. If my references aren't immediately available, that can be a problem. Whitelists help with that. If the person I am trying to see accepts a certain number of whitelist entries as verification, then I can usually get the appointment.
Is one visit enough to whitelist someone? That's up to you. Would you give a reference after 1 visit? Really, that's all it is. You giving a simple, unqualified reference. If there was anything about the date that made you uncomfortable, and you might still give a reference but you would want to clarify or explain something to the other woman, then you shouldn't do it.
Would a lady see someone just based on their whitelist entries. Sure. Some do. Others only look at it as one piece in the verification process. You have to go with what makes you comfortable.
Whitelisting means that you are vouching for the person and that you would see them again. I often have gentlemen ask me if I could white list them ahead of time and I tell them let's see how the session goes. I usually white list gents that write me reviews and that were great during session. I personally don't whitelist unless requested or unless a review is written. Do I like clients that are white listed? Yes make the screening process easier for me. If a gent (with me, not saying all providers are like this) is whitelisted and the white list is less than 6 months old I usually see him immediately. My advice to you is not to white list everyone just because they ask, white list them because they were a good date and showed you respect. Only good clients get whitelisted. I personally tend to whitelist people that give me reviews, they are doing me a favor so I should return it back. Now if the client writes a great review but during our session he was mean, rude, or didn't freshen up knowing he stunk I will not vouch for him.
Hope that helps
Some guys just want to know the general policy: Yes, yes but not always yes, yes conditional on ???, so there is at least a possible yes. But there are also some providers who absolutely refuse to WL and the guy just wants to know that going in (or choosing not to go in and see someone else).
Some guys have plenty of OKs on P411 or Date-Check but WLs are also helpful.
(I'm not a Provider, but I figure) If a guy has many reviews and WLs, it can help a provider with references. If she scans 5-10-20 WLs and sees someone she knows, she might just say, "Oh. I'll just contact her and see what she says about this guy." The guy might not ever know that they know each other and spent time suggesting other references (who sometimes don't reply quickly enough).
I think it was an innocent Q about general policy and not a quid pro quo about getting a WL just for seeing you
A hobbyist who was organizing an M&G in Vegas saw that I was whitelisted by a provider he knew and trusted. This is the reference that got me the invite to my first Vegas M&G, so I would say that whitelisting's are important.
But these should be given only if the client you see is someone you would see again.
