Looking for the things I like I someone's personality but really looking for the things that I don't like. I find that is way more important and could ruin a date quickly ....also who the reviewer is and looking at how many other reviews and what types of numbers they average in ratings...never strictly by the numbers
A few of us ladies were having a discussion regarding reviews and I was wondering... What, PERSONALLY, makes YOU want to see a lady? Is it score? Review or a combo of both?
It has come to my attention that it is impossible for some of us to get above a 7 because of services provided, even if they came to see us knowing we dont provide that service, we should get scored on the performance of the date. You know what and what your not going to get with us but because of scoring it looks like we provide lousy service?
THOUGHTS PLEASE???
I usually look for a lady with an average above an 8, then look at the services. BBBJ is a biggie and swallowing makes a call a definite, even if other physical bady features are lacking. On the other hand, a hottie with larger than average naturals and BBBJ also can do it for me.
Hope this helps
There are two approaches to reviewing. Some grade 1-10 period. Others look at the descriptions associated with each number. Take #8. Appearance=Really Hot. Performance=Went the extra mile. Now if I ignore grades and just say "She's really hot and goes the extra mile" wouldn't that be a compliment?
That's how some guys score. You read their review and the guy says how gorgeous the girl is, what a great time he had, and would definitely repeat. Then he gives her an 8/8 and thinks that's a great review. So I definitely look at the profile and the overall impressions from a number of reviews. I will also look at the worst and best review. Some guys are consistently low or high scorers. I may also find out later the low scorer made outrageous demands, wanted and didn't get a discount, or was drunk/stoned and couldn't get it up and blamed the girl. A low score gets even.
Why gentleman will score a 6/7 but rave about the excellent time he had and brag about how he will repeat?
IMO some of the guys here don't understand how to score and also don't realize how it affects us personally. Also TER does not permit certain girls to get 10's and has rejected certain reviews because he scored the lady too high...If that's the level of service he feel he got based on what she provides...then it should be allowed. How can TER tell someone they can't recieve a "10" (and their is proof of this)
A bad score really affects our business and often some guys do not take this into consideration. A bad review can affect our whole business for the week. I have had a few guys tell me that they just go by the most recent review and don't even care to read the rest of the ladies reviews. He will just skip over her and that's not fair.
Some men fail to realize that this is our job and how we make our living. Not only that but sometimes the reviews can be harsh.... We are PEOPLE too!! So I'm hoping that men will read this and realize to take into consideration the overall average that the lady has and the content in her reviews. Not just the latest "numbers"
Just saying!
and it will never be resolved. The numerical system is terribly flawed and, despite all the guidelines TER puts up, incredibly subjective. And, bottom line, there's nothing anyone can do about it. That's why anyone who simply uses the #s is foolish. Consider them, sure, but also read the rest of the review, check out who the reliable reviewers are, and back-channel.
I have mentioned in previous threads the formula that I use for deciding who I'm going to see. Scores are just another element of something to reference. Doing your homework, using multiple resources to come up with your own formula of who you'll choose is probably the best way to approach your choice. And I think that's probably different for each hobbyist.
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Looking for the things I like I someone's personality but really looking for the things that I don't like. I find that is way more important and could ruin a date quickly ....also who the reviewer is and looking at how many other reviews and what types of numbers they average in ratings...never strictly by the numbers
Scores vary from one reviewer to another- sometimes a lot. If a girl has several low scores (5 or less) then I will most often not investigate further because this is an immediate indication that the girl has problems.
The first thing I do is to look at a girl's TER page and look at the information listed, particularly her physical attributes, what she does and doesn't do, her price, and then her scores, looking for 7 and better. Then I go to her site or ad and look at her photos, and if I like what I see, I read the most recent reviews, maybe 2-4 reviews, and then look at her worst scored reviews and look for any kind of pattern. If she is in my price range, has looks and attributes that appeal to me and her reviews are generally positive, then I add her to my favorites, and periodically review my favorites to see what might appeal to me to try on my next adventure.
Like a lot of guys here, I tend to ignore some lower scored reviews if:
1. The descriptions are positive and the reviewer just scored lower than others
2. The description is very different from the reviews of a group of guys who gave good reviews.
We all know that girls can have an off day, or they don't click with a guy, or the guy is being an A-hole to the girl for some reason that isn't obvious (such as not getting Greek when the girl doesn't do Greek, or BBBJ etc.) If I am still uncertain, I look at the reviews that I am unsure about to see the history of the reviewer, and if I know him, know his reviews and believe him to be reputable. I will also PM the reviewer to ask specific questions. That's one of the reasons why this is such a good place for guys to find out about girls and figure out of they want to see them.
Once I find someone that I want to see, the thing that will make me pull the trigger on seeing her is the reviews, not the scores.
When you wanna consider a review look at everything in totality. Yes high rates means they provide more services. However when you read the content of the review it shows the performance of the provider.
I think that TER will change a score from a 10 to a lower number if there aren't enough qualifying services, but I don't think they delete the entire review. I've seen it happen a few times.
And your concern about one low score in the most recent review is legit. However, many of us will check out the reviewer and their track record: high praise but low numbers? consistently low numbers even for highly rated girls? not enough reviews to judge the guy? If it seems like a legit review and score, was it a one-off bad day for that Provider or the beginning of a downward trend in service? (I've seen that happen more than a couple of times; I won't name names.)
As for me, I've had some 10 experiences with 7-max girls. I try to get that across in what I write (when I review) but I still can't post a 10. In a sense, that's a 7 out of 7 = 100%, not a 7 out of 10, and I, for one, can be quite happy with a 7/7.
Not asked, but one thing that bothers me is inconsistent service or too much "YMMV". There are a couple of things that I particularly like and if I see those in Profiles and reviews, I hope to get the same. To be disappointed based on web site promises or review expectations makes for a lower score. If written reviews are excessively YMMV, I tend to avoid. Or, if a recent review mentions that a service previously provided in all the other reviews is not available I have to wonder if it is YMMV or completely off the table ... and I know that I can't ask such things in setting up an appointment or I'll get hung up on. ("Your Profile says XXX but the recent review says no-XXX? What's with that? ... Hello? Hello? Anybody there?"