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Advice beyond the usual and obvious
Dhat2710 9 Reviews 886 reads
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Ladies, what's the singe best thing a gentleman can do to put you in the best frame of mind to have a great time?  Let's avoid the obvious issues like showing up on time, hygiene and gifts.

To not have a 'pre-conceived idea' of how the session should go. If you are wanting GFE rather that PSE or visa versa then make sure you READ the reviews of the girls you are choosing. Without any research you are not only doing yourself an injustice but for the girl even worse. We girls just want to be compatible with whom we see. We don't get to pick you guys; we don't know WHAT you are looking for.  If you don't like certain things (ie. ethnicity, age, height, weight,  certain performances etc) then DON'T book them! There is always someone for someone - pick wisely and make sure you RESEARCH the girls you are going to see....and if they are not your style and you didn't do your due diligence before meeting, it is not the girl's fault - it is YOURS. Don't punish them for your lack of passive research to make sure you are compatible. We all just want the synergy to be as even as possible.  Thanks for listening; this seems to be an ongoing dilemma for many Providers. Kisses, Chloe

...specifically regarding the statement "If you don't like certain things (ie. ethnicity, age, height, weight,  certain performances etc) then DON'T book them".

Please understand, I'm not directing this at you. Rather, a widespread general practice that hurts the hobby for everyone.

While your suggestion certainly makes sense, it would be so much easier for all of us, providers and hobbyists alike, if providers weren't so often deceptive about "certain things (ie. ethnicity, age, height, weight,  certain performances etc)". Aside from out and out fake pics, there are pics from a decade ago, or sixty pounds ago, or heavily Photoshopped, and claims of age 10 years removed from the reality, etc., etc. This seriously complicates matters, and due diligence amounts to finding a needle in a haystack.



She means exactly what she said in that, for example, you don't necessarily like a lady who is in their 50's but choose to book them and then right in a review as how shocked you were at her age and it was a turn off when in fact it was clearly stated in her profile. I do not think she is talking about "bate and switch" or a deceitful provider. That is a whole other issue.
Trust me when I tell you how many hobbyist do this. Book a girl knowing it is NOT their type and then cant get over their disappointment when she's NOT THEIR TYPE.
SHOCKING

...I'm raising an issue *in addition* to what she's talking about, and a perfectly legitimate one.

I already agree with what Chloe mentioned, and what you're elaborating on, but it's besides the point that I'm trying to make in addition here, which you apparently agree with as well.

It is indeed shocking that a guy would book a lady that is obviously not his type, based on the information available. I absolutely never do that, but have been shocked on several occasions to find a woman who was just plain not as advertised.

I think there's plenty of room for both points to be made in this thread, especially since both points are legitimate and we agree on them.

Posted By: DerangedButCool
...I'm raising an issue *in addition* to what she's talking about, and a perfectly legitimate one.

I already agree with what Chloe mentioned, and what you're elaborating on, but it's besides the point that I'm trying to make in addition here, which you apparently agree with as well.

It is indeed shocking that a guy would book a lady that is obviously not his type, based on the information available. I absolutely never do that, but have been shocked on several occasions to find a woman who was just plain not as advertised.

I think there's plenty of room for both points to be made in this thread, especially since both points are legitimate and we agree on them.

now on to the orginal poster. I agree on the ease of screening,..does make life so much easier..but clean everything is wonderful..and if you have something specific in mind, a scenario you would like fulfilled..a heads up would be wonderful..it can always start the minute someone walks in the door..The best scenarios are those planned ahead, but so easily done.

Lets not forget enevelope that feeds the shoe addiction that gives me those great toned strong legs that swimming all my life started...

:)

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