I'm going to be in New York next week and looking to spend time with a friend who enjoys COF or cum play. Let me know if you have any recommendations either here or mail me.  

Sorry, but what does COF stand for ?

I believe you are correct.
COF - cum on face
COB - cum on body or breasts

I'm like.... hmmmm not even urban dictionary has this one.

... don't make people guess what you're looking for. Who can be bothered to consult an acronym glossary for some ISO? Just say what you want instead of splashing your post with alphabet soup. Bad writing is inconsiderate.

Its not inconsiderate to use the acronyms that users of these boards have used for many, many years. That one isnt even slightly obscure. If anything it classes up the joint and adds an air of discretion.