Alexis, a quality Las Vegas provider, was found Monday, stabbed to death in her apartment.  I was supposed to see her last week in Vegas, and she never returned my calls.  She had been dead about 10 days before she was found.

Sedona of San Diego, a provider and friend of mine, wrote a very important post on the General Board, that I believe all providers should see and act on.  This is for their own safety, and potentially the safety of those of us who are gentlemen, and would never think about harming anyone.

I urge all NY providers to read this, and act in some way to protect yourselves, what with the news from Vegas, and recently our own Tiffany.

Alexis and Tiffany, I regret not having had the opportunity to meet you, and I sincerely hope that you both are at peace.

-- Modified on 7/7/2003 11:48:30 PM

the big question is were these customers who perpetrated or were these insanely jealous boyfriends ? The Tiffany who was murdered here appears to have been locked into a brutally dysfunctional relationship for a period of time. The odds are great that he was the perp. Never heard of Alexis before, except as maybe a contributor to the national board, so no way to know about that, but it does kinda make you want to be ill.

My involvement in this is that she missed a date I had set up with her when I was in LV last week.  I called her many, many times with no answer.  It was after the fact that I found out the bad news from a friend of hers in lV.

I'm not sure what the circumstances were, but I do know that her boyfriend is now missing, and the police are looking for him.  

You're right.  If it turns out that the boyfriend is the perpetrator of this horror, it almost turns into an argument that the hobby is in fact safer than some straight relationships.

You're also right that it makes me sick.  The thrill and fun of the date aside, Alexis appeared to be a genuinely good person.  She was recommended to me by another provider/ATF of mine who is now retired, and the many e-mails we shared, and phone conversations were sweet and sensitive.  She evene-mailed me while I was in the hospital to make sure I was OK.

For  my money the loss of Alexis is a horrible atrocity.  in retrospect, I'm hoping that it in fact was someone who was not involved in the hobby.

maybe this isn't how it plays out... seems likely though. She's the one bringing home the regular money. He's sponging off of her, taking advantage of her emotional needfulness. She's the provider in a different dense of the word. He's got a comfortable deal going, but he hates himself. He feels emascualted and fraudulent. The more she works, the better she takes care of him, but he knows, the better she is taking care of him, the more she is turning on other guys and maybe getting turned on herself. This starts working on his sensitive mind, he's hooked on easy street but he despises what it takes to keep him there. So he does some coke, drinks to take the edge off the coke, does some more coke to take the fog off the booze, and sits there stewing in self loathing. He snaps, goes berserk, claims he can't remember anything, tells the DA how he was raped by his three uncles in a bid for sympathy and he still gets 15 years of hard time.

The State of Nevada is a bit more severe on murderers than a mere 15 years.  Nevada is also less sympathetic to those heart-rending stories about rapist uncles, etc.

In this case I almost hope he resists arrest and it doesn't get that far, and they're forced to become judge,jury and executioner.  A 9mm ACP round costs way less than any term of incarceration, or even the process of capital punishment.

I guess this is not the softer side of Fortitude.

-- Modified on 7/8/2003 12:50:50 PM

Unfortunately,there are some really bad apples out there....rotten to the core.
...and their elevator....doesn't run all the way up....stops at their shoulders... just as in the case Today in the Lockheed Martin plant in Ole' Miss., Today. Its just too bad that nobody could not head these dirty bastards off at the "pass" or why these cowards did not end it by them self after they had woke up on the wrong side of the bed as in these two terrible situations.
May the victims rest in peace in heaven and the dirty bastards
whom did these kind of things rot in hell! Amen!

This is the second time I have heard that Tiffany of New York Passed Away. Are you talking about the stunning African American provider? (Her website had "lit" candle links on it, she had a beautiful photo on a yellow floral couch)

p.