Hello fellow hobbyists. I'm posting this here with TER's permission as Candace advertises a lot out of NYC. It's a long tale but it's our duty to warn others so they don't get suckered.  

I initially reached out to Candace back in '13 but wasn't really in position to see her until 2015. We initially agreed upon 1K so I sent her that via western union in chunks. Once it was sent she tells me that was to "secure" a meeting her full rate was $1800. So I get a "she's trying to sucker you" feeling but at this point I feel compelled to finish what I start.  

At this point I had a brief unemployment stretch and then a minimum wage gig so I wasn't able to move forward for a time. When my situation improved I reached back out to her to restart sending deposits but no response. It got to the point I started booking with other providers before she got back to me. I will be honest and say we tried to meet in NYC in 2015 but I had to postpone due to the person I was going to be traveling with cancelled on me.  

I wasn't happy that she could find the time to post on instagram but not reply to texts or emails but then again she isn't my woman so i didn't really press her about it. Some of the reason things took so long was there was a discussion about doing a double with Beauty Dior but i opted for individual sessions. I sent the rest of Candace's fee in chunks and once again attempted to finalize a meeting.  

Come 2017 after more periodic lack of response I sent her some more $ to bring her to Rochester on two different occasions. First time it fell through due to something regarding the law so I won't mention it here (though i don't believe it was true in hindsight). We spoke on the phone and she gave me a lot of attitude saying I was not being serious and kept canceling on her among other things. I went back through all our correspondence to see what was the truth. When I saw that almost all of the delays were because of her or not responding I "let her have it" so to speak over email.  

Not sure if she read it or not but when we communicated again we had settled on June 15th and 16th. I sent her enough cash to purchase a plane ticket and hotel with an agreement that I'd give her another $500 in person. (So we're talking close to 3K by now almost triple than what i was initially told). Couple days later she texts me "So you've been telling people my business u kno everything u down the dark comes to the light honey". I asked her wtf was she talking about, no response. I go on her instagram saying we need to talk, she blocks me.  

So now i'm out of enough money to buy a decent used car and probably "blacklisted" among other providers that run in her circle. While not every provider is flaky it's a risk we all run engaging in this activity. Women are notoriously fickle, flaky, and capricious in normal circumstances. Add money to the mix and there's more incentive to scam you.
 
Couple lessons here. 1) Don't do deposits over time with a provider directly. Either do it with an agency or wait until you have their fee altogether before trying to see her. 2) Do not engage in the hobby too frequently or for too much in money. You're better off using your time and money learning to attract women "for free" in real life. 3) Find one reliable provider and stick with her. Being a regular helps mitigate being seen as another chump to fleece.

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First off, never send money in "chunks".  You wanna see her and fly her to you, buy the ticket and fly her, then when she sees you, pay her the rest at the date.  Yeah, you got suckered, because you made it so damn easy.  I put the blame in this case squarely on your shoulders.  If there was something to do wrong,you did it.  

If you dont have all the fee, dont see her. I see you learned that.

Sending money to a provider isnt like sending it to a bank.  She barely knows you. you set a date and couldnt pull the trigger completely and took 4 years from initial contact in '13 to now to blow up about it?  Giving her cash for nothing the whole time?  You are a timewaster and sad to say clueless.  This hobby isnt for you dude.

Granted, she took money and returned little to nothing.  Sad, infuriating even, yet you kept throwing good money after bad.  I have no sympathy for you, sorry.

First off Candace and I had been communicating via twitter long before I reached out to her regarding meeting up. Secod it wasn't 4 years of trying to see her. When I reached out in 2013 it was to gather information so when I was able to move on it I know how much.

Third you clearly glossed over how she told me one amount then when it was paid (which took like 3 months) she upped it. Yes I contributed to me getting fleeced but to diminish her accountability in this is white knight bs. I'm not the one that went weeks and months without responding. I'm not the one that got an attitude about canceling appointments when there hadn't been any. And lastly I'm not the one that gave a false accusation then hid. If I was a time waster then how come none of the ladies I reviewed feel that way? Because I'm not.

Providers who engage in this type of behavior are exploiting a gap in the system, since we cannot warn other hobbyists about them by writing reviews of sessions that did not occur. Yes, we can report this behavior on local boards, but at the end of the day, how many guys actually run searches on providers on their local boards? I imagine that most guys will just read reviews and will not hear about such behavior because it is not in the reviews. I wish there were a better way...

BUT - You were the moron who kept paying her.

You sound like the biggest chump I've ever heard of.  And of the lessons you've learned, only #1 is right and you should have known that one from the get-go.
Your lessons 2 and 3 are just dumb for most of us.  Then again, most of us here have at least a little game.

Most ladies consider the funds "absolved" if they have not been used within a year, so if you prepay for a session or many sessions make sure you use them before a year is up or they kinda absorb as all things have a statute of limitations.

I am with others here.  If you want to do a fly me date, save your $ up till you have the full amount and then get with said provider and agree on a date.  At that point you have the right and ability to negotiate the deposit amount, and I would never encourage prepayment of the entire or even most of the date in advance unless she has a rock solid rep and she has a very clear policy mapped out on her site.  You always have the right to negotiate on deposit amounts though, minimum should be airfare.....

But do it close to the time of the visit, I agree with others that installment plans do not work well with providers and if the only way you can get her to talk to you is by sending her cash, perhaps you have picked the wrong provider.

This whole thing could have been handled better and you might have saved alot of $.  Reach out when you are ready and have the $, before that doesn't even make sense

Have you EVER heard of a guy buying pussy on "lay away"???!!! ROFLMFAO

 
At least Chicken Little pays his BP skanks in full when they meet, he might pay them with rolls of pennies, nickels and dimes, but I have never heard of him paying on the installment or lay away plans. What a fucking maroon. lmao

SMD. Maroon that.

Yup I'm certainly going to go cry in a corner because Jake from state farm called me a fool. How will i ever survive

He begged to pay for pussy.

It's everyone else posting on this thread.  Get it?

...Nicole jumped 3 points in hotness in just ONE month.

 
Answer that, then I would get to all your other idiocy. LOL

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This dumb bastid is probably getting hit with interest AND a yearly account maintenance fee. LOL

Do I need to set up Wall Street U?  This post was idiotic from the beginning.  The random keystroke guy kept us going for awhile.   If you're going to waste thousands of dollars, please send it to me or JD.  We'll give you some advice, and you'll still come out ahead.  Do you youngsters have that much money to waste or are you that stupid?

This is the funniest thing I ever read in my life. "Pussy on lay away" lmao I'm dying!!

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