Hobbyists - Have you ever burned a bridge with a provider? For instance had to cancel a few appointments, or somehow flaked out and that provider totally blocked you? if so were you ever to make amends? I very interested in how you did it. There is one beautiful provider that I have regretfully done this with and I will always lament my choice. I am not a serial breaker of appointments and have many references available from reputable providers, but it seems like I can't recover from this one.

If you did this repeatedly, and showed little to no care for her time and her troubles (keep in mind that she might have rejected other appts to fit you in). Then you might as well just move on. Also if you didn't pay her for the time she lost by rejecting other appts because of you, and finally, if she has plenty of regulars who don't disappoint her.... Yeah... Move on.  

Agreed 100%

I was dropped by one provider who I saw a couple of times without an explanation. I took it like a man and moved on. I was always respectful and treated her well. For some reason it didn't bother me when she told me to lose her number. I think I said something that she took out of context which upset her and that's why I was dropped. Best advise find someone else. If she doesn't want to see you someone else will.

Enjoyed a number of sessions with her, but things unraveled over a board post.  That was years ago, and looking back no biggie.  I have ongoing relationships with several other ladies, some going back even further.

The fact that you mentioned flaking makes me think that maybe it was more than a couple of cancellations. Yet popular girls don't need to fawn over hobbyists and sometimes even one cancellation will put you on their black list.  

That's the worst advise ever. You're suggesting to use deceit as a way to circumvent his wrong doing. You know how violated I have felt in the past when I found out people did this shit in order to meet me?  

Your assuming that the guy is a bad guy; I'm not.  People get mislabeled all too easily over the smallest things (think of those crazy blacklists) and if he provides good, valid references then he is not creating a misapprehension to anyone. His reputation is stronger than an email address. However, if he is bounder and cad, then changing his identity would be wrong.  

I agree with those who said to move on.  Providers are only human and if she has decided not to see you for whatever reason I suggest respecting her decision.  This doesn't define you or make you a bad guy.  There are a ton of great ladies in the hobby...you have a lot of choices!!  Move on and leave the past in the past.

Listen , Move on - IF A Kennedy was replaced than so can any provider or anybody ..
Regardless who is at fault . If you did your due diligence and was sincere 100% .  

I I'm not. But if the provider has decided she doesn't wanna see him. And he changes his emails to pass as someone new. That is really not good advise.

Trouble for the future.  

Don't think of her as a gf.
Remember only reason she is seeing you is for $!

sorry sweet heart but your post is all most 2 funny , you have done this numerous times to me book appointments and flaked , someone like you we just drop.