So for the past 2 months I've been looking into seeing a provider for the first time and it's not going the way I had hoped or thought and I'm not sure if it's my preferences, location, budget or what.

I want big natural tits. That's the only reason I would spend any money on a provider. Ideally, she is pretty, thicccccc (even BBW territory), white or hispanic, but I'll take whatever as long as she's got some natty tig ass bitties.

The first issue is my budget. I thought $200 was reasonable, but now I've widened my search to $300 since I'm not finding anyone. Is 200 too low a number for most providers?

Location. Ok so I could drive to the city, but they seem to be priced over my budget. Not only that, but I have to pay the toll, drive around trying to find parking and I have a limited knowledge of the area. The other option is central or south jersey, which looks like my only option, as I have found 2 providers. But that is an hour drive at the very least.  

Schedule. Many providers work nights and weekends, which I wanted to avoid. I would prefer to get this done during the day because I'm trying to keep this on the DL obviously and if I were to go out nights/weekends I'd have to come up with a story to tell my SO.

Side note - When I first started looking, I couldn't tell which ads were scams. I would search a provider and one page would say one location and availabilitie and the other would have totally different info. At that time, I wasn't familiar with what sites were legit or what too look out for.  

So, I contacted an escort via email and did a big no no by asking if she would travel or what her availability was. She didn't appreciate it saying it's on her ad and If I saw the ad why am I asking. I explained that idk wtf I'm doing and I was just trying to be safe because it's hard to tell with ads. There was some back and forth and I really believe it was a misunderstanding due to it not being in person, but she seemed a little pissed off. I said that I would give her my screening info when I was ready to book and she never responded. Never will I do that again. Am I now blacklisted?

So far, there is really one option for me at that's Vicki Vayne. She doesn't offer cim, which I was hoping for, but she still has some huge cannons. She also has responded to me and seems chill. If I see her when she's at a hotel, it would be a 40 minute drive.

 
If you read all of that, I thank you and please ask if you could give me some advice, some names or lmk if my wants are unreasonable. Thanks again.

Generally does only car dates. She generally has a good rep if you're into getting blown in the front seat of your car. She's also an admitted smoker so if she smells of burnt tobacco, well, too damn bad.

She does offer Incalls at some motel though, that's the only way I would see her.

What's your priority - CIM versus location versus naturally busty?  

Naturally busty, then location at a real close 2nd, then cim.

You will not find many options of reliable ladies at the 2-3 mark… I highly suggest you bring up your budget to brighten your horizons.

That sucks. Alright, thanks for the help.

My first time was 20 years ago. That's not really all that long ago tbh. Back then you made a call or wrote an email, made an appt, got laid, went about your business. Then in the late 00's pros wanted references. I had plenty and joined 411, so it wasn't a big deal. But men are their own worst enemies. It's the Johns that drive this industry, not the providers. Men's cocks point them in a certain direction, and they will do almost anything to get some pussy. Or not get some pussy since OF and live streaming has enabled pros to never get touched by a strange man ever again and still rake in dough. That's men's fault. They allow it. Which means fewer pros, and higher demand. 5 years ago I could easily see a beautiful woman for $3-400 hr. FOSTA/SESTA and pandemic turned prostitution upside down. It's stunning what's happened to this "hobby". I never had issues spending $5-600 for an hour, but she needed to be special. Like porn star special. Try finding a legit porn star for less than $1,500-2k now. Ordinary women who give CBJ charging 5-600 for an hour. And men pay it. You live in a densely populated state that is expensive to live in. You will never, EVER find a a good, quality pro for $300. Ever. I haven't seen a pro in nearly 4 years. Be lying if I said I don't miss it. But I'll be damned if I'll ever give any personal information or pay a deposit! Seen scores of women over 17 years or so. Never told a single one my real name or where I worl. Paid one deposit to my very first encounter ever: Chelsea Charms. Never did it again. Will never do it again. That's my choice. I actually have SOME restraint. I won't get laid by a provider ever again. But at least I'll never get ripped off or have had my identity exposed. Good luck!

For what you are asking and your budget you really will have to search high and low. I would suggest just taking the time to research. I am sure you will eventually find someone who fits that.

I suggest you keep saving up for a great experience rather than spend your money on something you may regret. But I also believe in quality over quantity.

In what way do you mean "reliable"?

To have a good experience overall.

I'm just kidding , but you seem to have a lot  holding you back  
just not wanting to pay a toll to get to a provider  
If it's someone you want so bad why not just do it?

Think you are making it harder then it needs to be ..

Do you want a upscale provider in a nice hotel or you don't care ?
I would hope you want to feel safe at a nice incall and make the provider feel safe to who she seeing .
You want wambam or want a slow hand provider ?

quality over quantity  100%

I am DEF not what u are looking for with my 32 - small C cups lol. But ill try to help. This industry is like most others -  As far as Close in proximity.... cheap rates.....great service.....attractiveness.....reputation....AND a nice incall.

Sadly U can't have em all at once.  

For 200 👉 U can have a cheap rate, rushed service, and either a smoke filled room w syringes in the bathroom OR someone's grandmother's basement that u need to sneak out of lol.  

For 300 👉 U can have cheaper rate, good/great service (if u do yr homework) and attractiveness ....but U probably aren't going to get that nice of an incall.  U CAN if u look/ask around tho.  

For 320-  350 👉 U can have great service, attractiveness, good reputation and a decent to nice  incall.  

For 400 + 👉 U can find all of it lol.

 
Honestly 300-400 is the sweet spot if you look around.

Hotel prices have EXPLODED the last 2 yrs w inflation and price gouging. I CANT get a hotel for less than 100 in Ocean County (unless u go to a Seaside Heights craphole lol.) So its basically around 105-110 w tax/fees for a DECENT room. For something NICE it is around 160 -200 with tax/fees.
And there is also a 50 to 100 "incidental hold" at any hotel.  So u need to take into consideration shes putting out a MINIMUM of 100 just for the room and a 50-100 hold for few days til that is released back.  (When I go to a local 110 hotel... IINITIALLY i shell out 210 to get the room and 100 comes back to me few days after leaving.)  

 If you go farther south near Atlantic City (like any town right outside the city.)   You will find way cheaper hotels because there are SO FREAKING MANY they they need to compete w one another.  But....... most of the girls worth seeing left AC area because the money dried up.   So it's a catch 22.  

*Maybe find  a gal that interests you that travels sporadically with a rate yer cool with. Ask her when shell be in your area (or join mailing list.)  For 325 - 350 u can def get good service, good reputation  & big boobies in CNJ or SNJ.  

Wish I had big Ole titles for ya but can't help ya out w thst one 🤣