hi folks, just wanted to open a discussion about the few things i've learned in my limited days as a hobbyist and maybe the more exp'd will chime in and share...

1) if a providers ad pics have their stomach covered up in every pic, there is a reason for that...

2) most providers have "rules", try and find them out before a session, it might save you some regrets...

3) try and make sure you both understand what u expect from a session

4) providers age's given on backpage, myproviderguide etc, are rarely truthful..

5) if you google a providers # and you get no return hits that is not necessarily bad...

question - unfortunately not all legitimate providers have reviews on TER, so sometimes you just have to take a chance.. are there some red flags or bad sites you other hobbyists would stay away from? i've recently heard/seen  sites called , myscarletbook, myproviderguide etc..any thoughts...