New-comer in need of some advice.

I'm a newcomer to this neck of the woods and I'm trying to book an appointment with an escort but I need to have a frest start with someone who can and can refer me so I may join P411, datecheck, or just have plain references. I tried signing up for one of the sites but they want to verify calling your job if you don't have references. Heres my problem, I'm a self employed/ union contractor so I don't have anywhere for the site to contact. Can i get advice or is there any escorts out in NJ who use other means of verification that are trusting enough or any escorts who want to help me out?