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at that other place??

several months ago at a M&G party I thought it would be a cool idea to write " admin" on my name-tag. 99.9% of the people who attended saw the humor in it and thought it was a clever " stunt" . the very few who didnt are the type that bash people after they walk away from you and/or call you a " board cancer" AFTER youre banned, well whatever thats their problem. What I did was mentioned in the after-party comments in that party thread, so it seemed strange to many including myself that admin waited a FULL month after the party to give me a permanent ban for what he called "impersonating a mod". It was mentioned more than a few times in a thread titled "weak" that it seemed odd that if admin was so injured by with what i did why did he waited a month to boot me????

Several weeks went by and I returned to the site using the name Iced Tea, within days folks realized that my knowledge of the hobby made it clear I wasnt a newbie, but suspecions of who I was feel onto to another recently banned member. Eventually I was ratted out and admin banned me again. The point of this thread is what admin did next. He responded by rhetorically asking a question as to what should be done by folks who "aided and abetted" my return AND , also what should be done with folks who were aware I returned like WTF ??? Sure its his sand-box but again WTF??

At least one response to his coments asks if that site has become the old Russian KGB where posters are now REQUIRED to rat out their fellow posters.

Whats next over there? Will the Jewish members have to have the yellow star of David on their profiles?, will the gay members have to have a pink triangle next to theirs? Will the trannies have , well not sure what they would have have on their profiles.

-Monsieur4432 reads

Most of the girls are homely, old, or fat. Some are all of that.

Most of the guys are uneducated, low rent, ghetto, or white knight. Some are all of that.  The site exists to appease NJ hookers and take their advertising dollars. That sums it up.

gotta say ur a asshole for saying such shit,u my dear a probably a fatugly old no dick type

followme4038 reads

FUCK em if they can't take a joke !

Second it sounds like that admin (on the other site) is making up rules as he goes along, and has
no concept of fairness.

What an anal cavity he is.

Thank you
2011 = 28


If you were banned, and you thought it was unfair. Then why go back in the first place? i think by now everyone knows the climate of these boards and why they adhere to the rules so firmly. I too am on "hiatus " from that board, and to be honest I found them pretty fair over all. I stepped across the line a few times and had my knuckles rapped, but i never get the "heave ho" Admin had stated at last years end, that he was going to try and clean the board up. He had good reason.
You have 12,000 views on a thread, and 130 people voting on whether or not to keep someone. In other words, a lot of lurkers and people that do not contribute. Some of the mods there are better than others, i think you find that everywhere on boards today. In the case of xxxx , it is what it is, good for some, not for all.
Truth is, there are a lot of great guys over there. Some of the ladies were pitting guys against each other and vying for the Men's attention. After all, that is their purpose in the first place. You had/have a lot of friends over there GED, some big fans. Sometimes we all just need a break from the hobby, it is after all addictive, time consuming, and can overcome you like everything else that is  dangerous. If i was admin of any board, and felt that a member was abusive, then i would have to do whats best for the board. it would be like governing a small town. Having said all of this, I am a member here too, and i have been for many years. i have never seen the TER  NJ BOARD so quiet. not sure what happened..... miss my friends. Where is everyone?

-- Modified on 9/13/2011 2:39:02 PM

GED,

You know I like you, but it didn't come as any surprise to anyone that you got banned there. You had so many warnings, and calling a lady "fugly" (as just one example) just isn't right. Add into it the fact that you had been specifically warned to leave that particular group of ladies alone, and it is just that much worse. I was hoping that you wouldn't get banned, but I have to admit that you made me cringe on numerous occasions because I kept thinking that this would finally put you over the edge and get you banned.

It really is hard to get banned there. You have to work at it. You could see it coming a mile away in the vast majority of cases where people were banned.

Anyway, I hope you are doing well.

MrSourGrapes4555 reads

Posted By: MrJohnGalt
GED,

You know I like you, but it didn't come as any surprise to anyone that you got banned there. You had so many warnings, and calling a lady "fugly" (as just one example) just isn't right. Add into it the fact that you had been specifically warned to leave that particular group of ladies alone, and it is just that much worse. I was hoping that you wouldn't get banned, but I have to admit that you made me cringe on numerous occasions because I kept thinking that this would finally put you over the edge and get you banned.

It really is hard to get banned there. You have to work at it. You could see it coming a mile away in the vast majority of cases where people were banned.

Anyway, I hope you are doing well.
*Sigh*

Figured it was only a matter of time before GED cried like a baby about getting banned. Funny GED, how you left out other pertinent details to your banning, which JohnGalt, so eloquently pointed out.

As stated, YOU were stalking a team of girls that blacklisted you. Instead of moving on and letting it go, you posted everywhere they posted with some sort of snide remark. You would start random threads insulting them and their services. You were asked repeatedly by the mods and admin to cease and desist and even promised admin that you would. But that lasted for all about two minutes and you were back to your old ways.

This could've all been avoided but YOU decided to continue to push it. So forgive me if I have no sympathy for you.

nonymousanswer3286 reads

The cat's been out of the bag for a long time on his blacklistings - he has been advised by at least two providers in '09 that they blacklisted him.  I KNOW the TER won't tolerate that behavior from you - I'm betting your time is limited here

Posted By: MrSourGrapes
Posted By: MrJohnGalt
GED,

Figured it was only a matter of time before GED cried like a baby about getting banned. Funny GED, how you left out other pertinent details to your banning, which JohnGalt, so eloquently pointed out.

As stated, YOU were stalking a team of girls that blacklisted you. Instead of moving on and letting it go, you posted everywhere they posted with some sort of snide remark. You would start random threads insulting them and their services. You were asked repeatedly by the mods and admin to cease and desist and even promised admin that you would. But that lasted for all about two minutes and you were back to your old ways.

This could've all been avoided but YOU decided to continue to push it. So forgive me if I have no sympathy for you.

John,
Thanks for your thoughtful response, I returned to the board cause of the dozens of folks there like yourself who I considered board friends  both providers and hobbyists alike.

I know youre a big fan of "that particular group of ladies" ( and thats cool, spend your money as you like) but since they dont advertise here people may not know who youre talking about. Formerly known as the " Dream Team" they more commonly known as another team with the same initials. While the owner of the site  is well known, in reality he takes his marching orders from their pimp a guy named Mike ( the sites biggest  and most profitable client)who hides in the shadows and pretends to be the girls , since day one that was my only beef with them. Other agencies are owned by men but they dont post ads , answer questions or hang out in chat pretending to be the girls which this Mike does 24/7. Kinda sadto see guys chat with the " girls" when they're really chatting with him.

I'm sure they've told you and just about everyone else willing to listen that I'm bitter cause they wont see me , nothing can be further from the truth.  I was the initial member of the dreaded (lol) "no-book list" when 2 1/2 years ago I called them out on a scam of a contest they were part of that insured that one of his girls would win. At the time I said and its still true that " I would see all the full service providers before I saw my first safety girl"

Just a word or ten about your "it is really hard to get banned there" statement , look at the last three bans I recevied and tell me if you still agree..
1- I was banned a week for saying in chat that " all the feedback I've been getting is that they 'jumped the shark' and that their sessions have become mechanical"  at this point I guess I should thank the rat who ratted me out to them , most probably one of the others who posted here in this thread under an alias . These boards are all about a free exchange of ideas and I see nothing wrong with what I said.
2- Yes its true I said one of his girls was fugly, cause well its true, but just remember that I also posted that Brittany was very cute and Crissy is beautiful and as Meatloaf once said " two out of three aint bad"
3-the final ban was when admin again showed up a month after the party crying his crocidile tears about how much he was harmed by the name tag, John you were at the party , got the joke , enjoyed the laugh , know full that no one was harmed by it. The reality of that final ban which the powers that be wont admit is it was a few hours after I called out his favorite mod who has since admitted to giving the access codes to a provider, shame on him

Posted By: greeneyedude
Just a word or ten about your "it is really hard to get banned there" statement , look at the last three bans I recevied and tell me if you still agree..
I was referring to the fact that it is difficult to get *permanently* banned there. Temporary bans seem quite reasonable and a very fair way of communicating that this type of behavior won't be tolerated. I actually think that Admin has been too forgiving, although he seems to be getting a little stricter now that it is becoming obvious that certain people will just abuse his willingness to give people repeated chances to change their behavior.

You might not like the rules, but when you are playing in someone else's ballpark, you need to either play by their rules or move to another ballpark.

I'm all for following the rules , but I'm sure you'd agree with me that they need to be enforced uniformally and they're not. Since mike the pimp is well known as the biggest crybaby on the site and has admin in his hip pocket ,any hint of any criticism of his girls is immediately met with , warnings , infractions and finally bans . I'm not the only one , go ask Sultan, Mike Hunt and if you can track him down ask Jeffermin  why he was banned. I'm sure there are a few more .

A while back I wrote a review of a provider  that's no longer there, In the review  I said she wasnt "eye candy", , subsquentally I referred to her as " my ugly milf" at least a hundred times . She thanked me cause that review ironically got her tons of appts. My point is I never received any warnings or bans cause I said those things about her so you see the rules again arent enforced uniformally

If you wish we can discuss this in person at the next halloween party, I just gotta work on a costume

greeneyedoosh4363 reads

So, basically, your defense is that you were uniformly offensive, but weren't uniformly sanctioned for your offensive behavior? Sounds to me like the admin did you a number of favors! Besides, just days before your ban, he says you PROMISED to leave that group of girls alone, and you obviously have not. Could it be the entirety of your actions, and not just "the last straw" that REALLY got you banned?

greeneyedoosh5254 reads

LMAO! The obsession continues...and you wonder why you are banned!

greeneyedoosh4098 reads

that the admin had an issue with, as much as it is that you were dumb enough to return with the same IP.

Posted By: greeneyedude
at that other place??

several months ago at a M&G party I thought it would be a cool idea to write " admin" on my name-tag. 99.9% of the people who attended saw the humor in it and thought it was a clever " stunt" . the very few who didnt are the type that bash people after they walk away from you and/or call you a " board cancer" AFTER youre banned, well whatever thats their problem. What I did was mentioned in the after-party comments in that party thread, so it seemed strange to many including myself that admin waited a FULL month after the party to give me a permanent ban for what he called "impersonating a mod". It was mentioned more than a few times in a thread titled "weak" that it seemed odd that if admin was so injured by with what i did why did he waited a month to boot me????

Several weeks went by and I returned to the site using the name Iced Tea, within days folks realized that my knowledge of the hobby made it clear I wasnt a newbie, but suspecions of who I was feel onto to another recently banned member. Eventually I was ratted out and admin banned me again. The point of this thread is what admin did next. He responded by rhetorically asking a question as to what should be done by folks who "aided and abetted" my return AND , also what should be done with folks who were aware I returned like WTF ??? Sure its his sand-box but again WTF??

At least one response to his coments asks if that site has become the old Russian KGB where posters are now REQUIRED to rat out their fellow posters.

Whats next over there? Will the Jewish members have to have the yellow star of David on their profiles?, will the gay members have to have a pink triangle next to theirs? Will the trannies have , well not sure what they would have have on their profiles.

nonymousanswer4559 reads

You were banned several times from that board for everything from harassing providers (as in MANY of them) to lying, writing flame posts and being a general asshole and douche bag.  You should have been permanently banned much earlier and how you managed to stay on the board as long as you did leaves many people shaking their head.  You continually demote women, can't get a provider to see you passed the second time IF you can get a second date.  According to many providers, you are HELL to put up with and there was at least one party you had to be asked NOT to attend as everyone on the guest list refused to come to the party with you there.  You may have had one or two creeps follow and support you but the membership despises you over all.  

EVERY ADMIN has overall say on their boards and he saved your ass on more than one occasion and for FAR too long.  Stop bitching and go away.

BigFinBaby3939 reads

It wasnt just that one thing you did to get you banned. Admin was MORE than gracious to let you stay on the board with MANY warnings and yet you act like a 2 year old pushing your boundaries just to see how far it would go. Harrassing providers if they didnt kiss your ass or if they insulted you, lying on providers, writing 16 month old BAD reviews cause a provider called you out just to hurt ones business, backchannel comments lying about providers you didnt like just to hurt their business, harassing mods, harassing other members if they called you out on your shit, etc etc etc etc etc....did I mention etc ????

On many occassions you almost became obsessed with ruining a providers rep just because they pissed you off with a comment they made. The board is SOOOO horrible so bad but yet you cant stay away from it and are coming back under aliases....MAN up you fucked up time and time again yet YOU do nothing to fix it.

On a side note its so funny how people bash the board yet choose to create aliases after theyve been banned so they can come back

-Monsieur4553 reads

The site is ruled by ugly women that pay for ads and their own boards. It is not a review site or a credible place to get info for men. It's an advertising board for NJ prostitutes first and foremost. The guys are ignorant, and the girls are ugly. Their Admin has no balls, but laughs all the way to the bank.

nonymousanswer3969 reads

Your opinions of that site and the people on it are , well, YOUR opinion.  Along with skanks and assholes, there are several outstanding providers and hobbyist on that site -as is the case with most boards that have a fairly membership.  I would remind you that TER has attracted and hosted ALL types as well.  I've seen REVIEWS posted by guys who rave about choking girls and sneaking the condom off.  Those reviews were eventually taken down as well as posts by providers willing to provide BBFS for extra fees and so on.  And the persons making the rules up for TER often leave us wondering WTF are they thinking.

As far as GED goes, it's HIS BEHAVIOR that got his ass banned!

While I prefer TER, the other site is not, IMO, as bad as many have said.  I've met some fine guys and girls there.  Many of the latter also are on TER. And one of my all-time favorites is mainly on Brand X -- a great provider.

greeneyedoosh3853 reads

And what does your opinion of that other site have to do with greeneyedude getting a break? Have you been banned too?!

MrSourGrapes6550 reads

Posted By: BigFinBaby
It wasnt just that one thing you did to get you banned. Admin was MORE than gracious to let you stay on the board with MANY warnings and yet you act like a 2 year old pushing your boundaries just to see how far it would go. Harrassing providers if they didnt kiss your ass or if they insulted you, lying on providers, writing 16 month old BAD reviews cause a provider called you out just to hurt ones business, backchannel comments lying about providers you didnt like just to hurt their business, harassing mods, harassing other members if they called you out on your shit, etc etc etc etc etc....did I mention etc ????
about him being two faced. How he used to bad mouth providers backchannel. Providers that he once wrote glowing reviews of, but then when they turned him down for another visit or called him out after realizing how much trouble he is, all of sudden his tuned changed.

LoveFoam3659 reads

GED..... tisk tisk tisk.  As usual your propensity for changing the facts to suit you, and yes I do mean you're lying.  

I am amazed that you are comfy calling a guy a "pimp".  I was a customer of "The New Taylor" before she went to work for Bobby, and it's a well known fact that you proposed to her that you become her assistant/booker/security.  Strange you wanted to do for Taylor what others do for other girls, and you label them a pimp.  If you had done that for Taylor, would you have called yourself a pimp?  Or are you exempt from such a label because you are different from all the other guys?

Also I remember the contest that you are referring to, and I remember your real issue with the contest was that one of the organizers of the contest, and his chat buddy accused you of being a child molester.  They were temporarily banned from that other place, but that was why you were outraged.

Also, do you forget all the flame wars you had with other people on that site?  It's amazing that you only point out your issues with one group.  It seems your obsession with that group continues on to TER.  

The reality is, TER is going to ban you as well, because you will do what you always do.  You will alienate the male members with your over inflated sense of yourself, and you will end up blacklisted by many females because of your creepy nature with them.  

In my opinion it is time for you to retire from the hobby.  You just don't get it, and you will become a cancer on this site, just like you were on that other site.

tsk tsk tsk back to yet another cretin crawling out of the sewers using a fake name, If you were truly around during the New taylor days you'd have a name that folks know and a few reviews too

So its "well known" that I wanted to be those things for Taylor?  really? sure sounds like the garbage Mike gave me in chat one time, almost word for word , are you Mike? do tell

While its true I was one of the first to be-friend taylor in no way did I offer to be her assistant /booker/security, thats laughable she was a 100 miles from me in Ac when we first chatted. Taylor was the Haley's comet of providers , an awesome gal who was beautiful( the only ten I ever gave for face) and top shelf skills to match, her problem was that her business skills were aweful ie missed appts, no=shows. I suggested she meet one of the most respected and well known assistants ( perhaps she can respond to verify this) . This assistant set up a photo shot that went horribly wrong and she told Taylor that she couldnt help her, After that she signed up with Bobbi ( notice the correct spelling of Bobbi's name) . When Bobbi left the area, taylor signed up with the DT, no idea  where she is now

Your time line of that contest is wrong too, as the contest was ending I posted four reasons why it was a scam. Ironically it was the mod who got me banned as iced tea that told me and I quote" notice how the girls were put in different brackets to insure one would win?" Two of the four principals of the contest were so pissed that I outed their fraud that they began posting the BS you referred to that they were given from one of those blacklist sites on a daily basis, Admin told them to cut it out , one said " why, what are you going to do about it?"  (nice reply), those two were quickly banned for good. To his credit admin also scolded several other members who spread such lies. Thing about those blacklist sites is they'll post anything the girls tell them. In an e-mail from the one said " the girls wouldnt post it if it wasnt true" . They soon took that garbage off their site cause the provider who posted that was not only discredited but run out of the state

As far as my reputation with providers, combining the review on both sites I have about 50 reviews, I reckon that at least 45 would have zero problem seeing me again, feel free to go ask any of them

greeneyedoosh3363 reads

Where are all these ladies that are willing to see you again? They seem awfully quiet! Perhaps you can pull out your little black book and make some calls?

Wow, banned by one "unfair admin" is one thing, albeit multiple times and encouraged by the membership, but it seems you have managed to insult, offend, and tick off an entire community of ladies too. Now, care to elaborate on the number of agencies that won't take your cash, too? We know of one so far!

Posted By: greeneyedude
tsk tsk tsk back to yet another cretin crawling out of the sewers using a fake name, If you were truly around during the New taylor days you'd have a name that folks know and a few reviews too

So its "well known" that I wanted to be those things for Taylor?  really? sure sounds like the garbage Mike gave me in chat one time, almost word for word , are you Mike? do tell

While its true I was one of the first to be-friend taylor in no way did I offer to be her assistant /booker/security, thats laughable she was a 100 miles from me in Ac when we first chatted. Taylor was the Haley's comet of providers , an awesome gal who was beautiful( the only ten I ever gave for face) and top shelf skills to match, her problem was that her business skills were aweful ie missed appts, no=shows. I suggested she meet one of the most respected and well known assistants ( perhaps she can respond to verify this) . This assistant set up a photo shot that went horribly wrong and she told Taylor that she couldnt help her, After that she signed up with Bobbi ( notice the correct spelling of Bobbi's name) . When Bobbi left the area, taylor signed up with the DT, no idea  where she is now

Your time line of that contest is wrong too, as the contest was ending I posted four reasons why it was a scam. Ironically it was the mod who got me banned as iced tea that told me and I quote" notice how the girls were put in different brackets to insure one would win?" Two of the four principals of the contest were so pissed that I outed their fraud that they began posting the BS you referred to that they were given from one of those blacklist sites on a daily basis, Admin told them to cut it out , one said " why, what are you going to do about it?"  (nice reply), those two were quickly banned for good. To his credit admin also scolded several other members who spread such lies. Thing about those blacklist sites is they'll post anything the girls tell them. In an e-mail from the one said " the girls wouldnt post it if it wasnt true" . They soon took that garbage off their site cause the provider who posted that was not only discredited but run out of the state

As far as my reputation with providers, combining the review on both sites I have about 50 reviews, I reckon that at least 45 would have zero problem seeing me again, feel free to go ask any of them

nonymousanswer4260 reads

About 5 of 50 WOULD see you.  If that.

Posted By: greeneyedude
tsk tsk tsk back to yet another cretin crawling out of the sewers using a fake name, If you were truly around during the New taylor days you'd have a name that folks know and a few reviews too

So its "well known" that I wanted to be those things for Taylor?  really? sure sounds like the garbage Mike gave me in chat one time, almost word for word , are you Mike? do tell

While its true I was one of the first to be-friend taylor in no way did I offer to be her assistant /booker/security, thats laughable she was a 100 miles from me in Ac when we first chatted. Taylor was the Haley's comet of providers , an awesome gal who was beautiful( the only ten I ever gave for face) and top shelf skills to match, her problem was that her business skills were aweful ie missed appts, no=shows. I suggested she meet one of the most respected and well known assistants ( perhaps she can respond to verify this) . This assistant set up a photo shot that went horribly wrong and she told Taylor that she couldnt help her, After that she signed up with Bobbi ( notice the correct spelling of Bobbi's name) . When Bobbi left the area, taylor signed up with the DT, no idea  where she is now

Your time line of that contest is wrong too, as the contest was ending I posted four reasons why it was a scam. Ironically it was the mod who got me banned as iced tea that told me and I quote" notice how the girls were put in different brackets to insure one would win?" Two of the four principals of the contest were so pissed that I outed their fraud that they began posting the BS you referred to that they were given from one of those blacklist sites on a daily basis, Admin told them to cut it out , one said " why, what are you going to do about it?"  (nice reply), those two were quickly banned for good. To his credit admin also scolded several other members who spread such lies. Thing about those blacklist sites is they'll post anything the girls tell them. In an e-mail from the one said " the girls wouldnt post it if it wasnt true" . They soon took that garbage off their site cause the provider who posted that was not only discredited but run out of the state

As far as my reputation with providers, combining the review on both sites I have about 50 reviews, I reckon that at least 45 would have zero problem seeing me again, feel free to go ask any of them

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