was some type of a rip off, b&s, etc, it doesn't really warrant posting.

It's happened to me on numerous occasions.

To be clear, I wouldn't post her name on this board.

Yes she left you hanging, her reasons, believable or not, aren't all that important.

Don't take it personally. Just find another girl.

Just last week, I had a double header set up. Girl number one flaked. Girl number two flaked.
Thank heavens for self gratification.
Move on.

i understand move on it is just that it happens so often i feel that it should be noted

She can deny it, claim ur stalking her, she has ur contact info, have her wk's trash u on the boards and black list u. So, is it worth it? Only you can answer that. Me? I'd move on to girl no. 2.