your gonna get chopped up for this ??? as it has been discussed many time. hurry up and delete it.

Not many ways around it unless you join date check or a similar service. Still gotta give them info though. Or you could just see backpage girls who don't give a shit and could be cops or worse!! If you're concerned stay with well reviewed Indy girls versus an agency much easier to be discreet that way.

At the same time, the provider or service is not required to see you. It's really that simple. How stupid would it be for a provider or agency to rip off the very clients that allow them to succeed? Rarely, have I ever heard of it done this way. Rip offs usually happen from sending money upfront to people who have no reputation to protect, or from a cash and dash upon arrival.

Jewel and Lacy have been pretty good with client confidentiality

As far as I know every agency will require your real name and maybe a work # just to verify you  work there.; also a couple of provider references; some don't accept white list referrals,