Wanted to get everone's thoughts on the matter.
Are we spoiled (sexually) with what escorts/providers bring to the table that impact relationships with a girlfriend? Do providers raise the bar so high that is unattainable by a girlfriend; are these unrealistic expectations to have?
This does not deal with the emotional or support that another person brings or having a companion, partner and friend.
With escorts/providers:
Amazing sex; with a variety of women; who open minded; it's reinvigorating/energizing. They
do things my GF would never do (no matter how much I do or willing to do sexually or
emotionally).
Then a girl friend enters our life:
Sex is average to below average. becomes routing; not wiling to keep things interesting (and i'm
not talking about anything involving pain or s&m etc);
After a while, I find my imagination going back to some of my ATF's and how amazing everything was/is.
Hence the question(s):
Am I the only one this happens to?
Does this happen to you?
How do you handle/cope?
Are we spoiled with what providers bring to the table