I will be visiting Cape May (family reunion) next week(7/3 thru 7/7).  I have been there once (California gent here) and vaguely remember it.  Two quesions:  Can anyone recommend a laid back bar for kicking back and relaxing with friends?  and  (perhaps more importantly) I will experience "burn out" with family and need to take a break.  Are there any providers that provide an incall in this area?

GS