From a clients standpoint I TOTALLY believe you REALLY have to be careful with this tyoe of thing. U have to be diligent with WHO and WHY you send a deposit. Do your homework.
Because sadly there ARE some greedy fks that want to make the money an escort makes, but DONT want to do the dirty work. LoL And these b*tches ruin it for the rest of us honest ones.
Personally, the only time I ASK for any type of PrePayment is if I am traveling OR sometimes for multi hour dates.
1. When PreBookong appts for a trip -
If a gentleman doesn't have anyone to vouch for him during screening AKA references (a newbie or someone who has been out of the loop for a few years) Then I would ask for a $50 deposit.
2. If it is a multi hour date and I am to travel for it/pay for the room... I would also ask for a $50 deposit.
In all honesty, I have had more guys ASK if they can prepay via Venmo/CashApp than I have asked to do it.
BUT I have also been in the industry for a decade and ppl KNOW I'm not a flake or scammer by this point. With 1 Google search u can find PAGES of stuff on a long standing provider. Soooooo I guess it's a little different than just sending someone u haven't really heard of $$.
Us girls DO get screwed over a lot more often than you think. Blame the scummy douches that came out of the woodwork SOON as SESTA was passed. The "bp refugees" as we fondly nicknamed them,lol......they are the REASON so many providers started taking deposits in the 1st place.
But......THEN the scammer girls caught on and started to steal from guys just be be lazy b*tches. I hate them btw.