Hello to all. This post is not meant to offend anyone. Im talking about my life, what I like and also what I find strange.

I have been to strip clubs. I have hobbied at them a few times. I dont drink or do illegal drugs. I have hobbied at hotels, and once in my car. Im not judging anyone and im not better than any of you, just confused andaybe we can talk it out, ok?

       So going into my favorite strip bar the other day and watched a black dude who was fussing with a bouncer about the dress code. He didnt want to take his hat off and the bouncer also said no jerseys which he was also wearing, as was i. So I leave before being told to and take my yankees throwback off in the car. Now I only mention race because my jamaican best friend said the dress code is to keep blacks out. I disagree, but none of that is my point. The bouncer kept insisting the guy be respectfull to the ladies. There is the rub. We got drunk and came to the strip bar, specifically TO disrespext some ladies. Catcalls leering obscenne language and gestures and offering money for their... Ahem time. All disrespectfull acts, but fully expected and accepted by the ladies in question.
  I have experienced the same wierd double standard while hobby-ing. im paying to get what I want. The ladies are selling it, but I have to take off my hat, or whatever? Im not talking about being mean or hurtfull, I LOVE women and im here to get laid after all, but cant we, as adults, drop the pretense? I mean when I hobby im looking for a slut, a down and dirty whore, covered in glitter and perfume who can and will do things my wife cant even imagine. I realize that when im hobby-ing that im a low life criminal, lol so lets just let all the conventions go. Enough already. I would like to repeat that I started this taking off my jersey without being asked so I follow the conventions, but dont know why they exist. How about I treat you like a fellow human being instead, cause if I thought you were a lady in the traditional sense we wouldnt have even met in the first place. Im a nice guy, really I am. Lets talk this out.